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Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Ear and Other Piercings
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Body modifications, like ear piercings, have been going on for thousands of years. When the first Neanderthal put a bone in the ear and received some grunts of enthusiasm from his tribal friends, the trend likely began.

I pierced my daughter's ear when she was just two, much to the horror of her grandmother who felt that piercings made girls look "cheap". My daughter was certainly not cheap, and she sure looked cute in those little earrings.

Little did I know, twenty years later, I would be looking at my daughter with pierced eyebrows, nose, lips, belly-buttons, and tongue (and perhaps piercings in areas that Dads never see). She even worked for several years as a piercer.

I once visited her at the tattoo place and was absolutely horrified at the place people get pierced. I saw their catalogue of piercings: the penis (various locations), scrotum, nipples, the labia, the clitoral hood, etc. You name it, and someone will put a hole and some jewelry in it.

Piercings are done without local anesthesia as part of the experience. Screaming, apparently, is frowned upon. Since I am not a big fan of intentional pain, it never entered my mind to have a pierced anything. I will leave this world with the same number of natural holes that I had when I was born, and without jewels or chains hanging from anything.

Behind the confidential door of the examining rooms, I have seen many, many piercings; just about everything in the catalogue. A medical provider quickly learns to be non-judgmental in these situations. On the outside you either ignore it, or you might say, "Oh, I see you have a pierced _______."

Inside, you are saying, "Oh my God! She has a pierced ______!"

Most piercings done in reputable establishments are done under sterile conditions. Since hepatitis B, HIV, and other blood-borne diseases are a definite risk, this is nice to know.

The human skin, unfortunately, cannot be adequately sterilized, so infections are quite common until the piercings heal. Minor infections in the earlobe are easily treated; infections in the ear cartilage are more problematic. Unless ear cartilage infections are properly and promptly treated, the person could end up with a deformed, cauliflower ear.

Keloids
, or hypertrophic scars, can also occur. Keloids are another thing that can permanently deform the outer ear. At least once or twice a month, I am fishing out an infected and embedded ear post in a child's ear.

I see a lot of nipple piercings in both men and women. Surprisingly, these do not get infected very often. Tongue piercings, painful as they are to have inserted, rarely get infected since they are constantly washed by protective saliva. The nasal mucosa is not the cleanest place on our body. Subsequently, nasal piercings get infections. Umbilical piercings take several months to heal, so infections are much more common in this area. Lastly, you take the most risk with genital piercings.

My daughter is thirty years old now, more mature, and has gone back to just having pierced ears again. Whew!

By the way, the picture is NOT my daughter.

Related Topics: Tattoo Trends: It's Not Just Sailors, ADA Dental Channel: Oral Piercing

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Posted by: Rod Moser_PA_PhD at 12:35 AM

233 Comments:

Anonymous Leaha101 said...

That picture...! Ew..! I guess it's truely one of those "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" things, huh?
My ears were pierced as a young child as well. I've probably had them pierced 4 times now. All in the same place!
I take the earrings out because one of my ears will start to hurt and turn red...and then forget to put them back it or lose one of them. My ears have now been pierced so much in the same spot, I can go years without wearing earrings...and it doesn't grow back!

May 16, 2006 1:39:00 PM  
Anonymous Cassandra said...

I have one set of ear piercings (which is kind of unusual nowadays), a septum piercing (that's the middle of your nose), a vertical labret, and a vertical hood piercing. I took out my bellybutton and tongue piercings, as I found them pointless and annoying. I had a set of nipple piercings, but got a bad case of bronchitis that led to sepsis, so they ended up getting infected and I had to take them out.

As far as infections go, nothing has ever gotten infected (aside from what sepsis caused). The only unusual piercing that you can see on me is my vertical labret, and you'd be amazed at the amount of jobs I cannot get unless I take it out. Overall though, it seems to be more socially acceptable than when I put in my septum (which sometimes makes mothers grab their children away and move to the opposite side of the room).

I think perhaps the most disturbing thing is that I bridge the gap. I don't dress like someone you'd see with piercings hanging off of their nose or lip.

But there's nothing wrong with piercings, if you know how to take care of them... and if you got them for you, not because you think it's cool.

May 19, 2006 1:34:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Piercings taken to the extreme are body mutilation, not beautification. They are to get attention and for adornment. It's amazing what people will do for attention. I know I would try some other way and not put myself through the pain and scarring!!! I wish people felt more love and acceptance so they did not feel the need to have such things to draw attention to themselves. My girls and I only have one hole pierced in each ear. I guess we are the exception instead of the normal???

May 19, 2006 6:37:00 PM  
Blogger I go by many names... said...

I have a total of 19 ear piercings - 4 lobe piercings in each ear, 4 in one cartilage, and 3 in the other. I've had minor infections in some of the cartilage piercings and both ears are slightly swollen, but I have no regrets. I love the look, and don't care what others think of it. I plan to get a rook piercing in each ear too. I already have earrings for it!

BTW, I'm 53. :-)

May 19, 2006 7:11:00 PM  
Anonymous Lisa Moore said...

I always find it amazing that those who proclaim that they are individuals and non-conformists are really conforming to the most desperate extreme. They who pierce to the extreme will be the first to condemn "trendy" people. Are they that unintelligent to see that it is they who are followers?

May 19, 2006 8:13:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I do not like any part of the body being pierced besides the ears. I guess I am old fashioned, but face it as we all get older the only piercings that are going to age well are ones in the ears, and that can be questionable in some folks as the ear lobes get larger as we age. Some folks need to think more about the future than just today.

May 20, 2006 12:18:00 PM  
Blogger watermellonyum said...

My nose is actually infected now. I also have my belly button pierced and that got infected shortly after my nose got infected. Is this a problem?

May 22, 2006 8:52:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My mother had my ears done before I can remember, so they have just always been there. Right after my 18th birthday I got my belly button done..sort of a rebelious thing, was to scared to get a tattoo...it can not be taken out, way to permanent for me!!! But I still have the belly ring (i am now 27) and I think that I always will!! My stomach is flat and I know that it has no type of use, but I think that it really looks cute...ans so does my husband. My baby boy likes to play with it. I only dread that "But mom you have your belly button done". I have aloready thought of the reply...I waited until I was 18!!!! Of course my mom didn't know about it for a year and a half!! She does now, and won't talk about it..sort of acts like it isn't there!!

May 22, 2006 3:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you believe in body equalibrium, the center of your well being is just above your navel. This is your bodies center most balance and some believe is the source of all energy. Putting a piercing there with a stupid, yes I said stupid, piece of jewelry is probably somewhat dangerous, not that anyone who does that sort of thing ever thinks about what they are really doing verses how cool they think it is. Kind of like smoking or tattoos.

May 22, 2006 4:14:00 PM  
Blogger wmverdon said...

I am 41 years old and I have 3 piercings in each ear and one in my belly button. When I got pregnant, I took it out and then re-formed my hole months after I had my baby, hoping it would give me the incentive to get my stomach back into shape. Well, 4 years later and it is still not in shape, but it does make me feel sexy, even though only me and my husband are the only ones that see it and of course my 4 year old and that scares me a little, but she does not even want her ears piereced! I don't agree with all the personal piercings, but to each his own. I don't get upset when I see them, I just think, wow, that must have hurt. I actually like the eye brow, but am too chicken to do it and my family would die! I also want a tatoo, but I guess I am getting too old for that and I know it hurts, so I am scared to get it. I guess the belly piercing makes me feel a little on the bad side and I am not a bad person, but I do love that!

May 22, 2006 5:25:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When I was 5 and my sister was 7, my mom had our hair cut so short that we looked like boys. To compensate, she let us get our ears pierced and we felt like our studs really stood out. Shortly after, the 3 of us were in a restaurant where a large party was going on. After it ended, the party's hostess came over and said to my mom that she was worried when we had walked in, but as it turned out, we were the 'two most well-behaved boys' she'd seen! My mom said thank you, and as the woman left, my sister and I just cried! (30 yrs. later, I still haven't bothered with any further piercings!)

May 22, 2006 6:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Traci said...

I am a 31 yr old married mother of 2. To look at me, I'm an average all-american girl next door. I work at a college. A former cheerleader, former student gov't president, very active in my community, and true believer in to be healthy outside you have to be healthy inside:) I have 5 piercings total...1 in each ear, 1 nipple, 1 navel, and a hood piercing. I haven't worn earrings since high school. My other piercings are just for me...it does make me feel sexier. All my body art is located in places that still allow me to go to church with my grandmother. But I wouldn't trade my body art for anything. Each one symbolizes a piece of my life.

May 23, 2006 10:42:00 AM  
Blogger I go by many names... said...

I made some typos in my previous post. It should be 6 cartilage piercings in one ear and 5 in the other. I shouldn't post when I have a headache. :-)

I've been wondering about the infection rate of corset piercings. I'd love to get one, but taking care of it seems tricky, and leaning against a chair back might not always be pleasant.

I think I'll pass on the face piercing. ;-)

May 24, 2006 5:29:00 PM  
Anonymous raja said...

I am a man. I am 42. I was reading the article and all the comments [13 of them] published underneath.

It made an interesting reading. I would like to ask one question to the Doctor. Is piercing really useful to people. The only scientific comment I saw in the whole list is one by "anonymous" which said "only piercings that are going to age well are ones in the ears".

I am asking the question because, it is our tradition to pierce the ears of children when they are young [normally not later than 1 year old]. Specifically in our tradition we do it when the child is 56 days old. It is painful as a father to see, but we also know that children forget the pain faster when they r younger.

I would appreciate if there is any medical/scientific benefits through piercing. Many thanks.

May 25, 2006 6:02:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Proof positive most humans are glorified monkeys..monkey see..monkey do..I have had major piercings..surgical procedures..don't need to do any more harm to my body..that picture shows someone desperate for attention..too bad...really sad. I like some piercings. Ears..belly button..beyond that it starts to get silly...

May 25, 2006 3:01:00 PM  
Anonymous CRASH said...

I agree with your mother . . . piercings (especially things other than ear lobes) DO make girls look cheap. What ever happened to the "totally natural" look?! Piercings & tattoos do make girls look slutty. Here's one guy who appreciates women "just the way God made 'em"!

May 25, 2006 3:23:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This man lives in my home town and comes into the library where I work.
He is a retired bank manager and has had most of his piercings done since retiring.
He may look quite scary but he is perfectly normal of course.
I have a tattoo and my nose and my ears pierced. But according to newspaper reports he has piercings everywhere!
All I can say, is "Do not sit opposite him when he is wearing his cut off denims!!!" EEEOOOO!

May 25, 2006 5:38:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My Mom told me I could have my ears pierced when I turned 12 yrs old IF I stayed on AB honor roll. I did, I got them done & I was only allowed to wear studs, the studs my family bought me and they were awfully nice ones for a little girl! I learned that this was a precious gift given to me by working hard. I took that into my life. I am now 48 yrs old, have 2 college degrees but, I still only have piercings in my ears; 4 in one and 2 in the other, just "to be different". I'm a nurse and have seen alot of piercings in many strange and different areas. I'm open-minded and understand wanting to stand-out but, to put your life at risk or to stand-out just a little too much, I find a bit odd. I also think that tattoos are going a bit over-board now and I laugh when I think what these kids are going to say to each other when they're in Nursing Homes or when their grandchildren ask about them!!!!!

May 25, 2006 5:56:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Someone that commented before said that, 'I like some piercings, ears and belly button, but after that they just get silly.' I TOTALLY dissagree. I think that belly button piercings are just about the trashiest thing anyone could have. I personally like ear piercings and septum piercings, but I hate that EVERYONE at my school is getting their septums pierced. It used to be cool and kind of interesting, but not its just the 'scene' thing to do.

May 25, 2006 7:37:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 59 years old and I will have another birthday before the year is out! I had my ears pierced at the age of twenty-one. My (then) husband thought that ear pierces were attractive and of course, I was very much in love. There were five children from that relationship, three of them boys, and when each of the boys got one ear pierce (left ear, cultural thing) I used the extra one and got a second pierce in my left ear. I have considered a nose-pierce (I think they look great on East Indian women) but have never gotten one. What I DID do, after many years of thinking about it, was to get a tattoo in the very middle of my back, just at the waistline. It is simple and meaningful to me, and as far as I know, that is one place that does not sag as one ages. I am very happy with it. I do not recommend it to others, and yes it was painful. As with anything else in life, choices are predicated on one's own beliefs and life-style. Rules still apply ... everything in moderation, nothing to excess.

May 25, 2006 11:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I,also,am a nurse. I personally have no tatoos or piercings. I do not care if others choose to do either of them. I must however confess that thoughts run through my mind when I see someone who has their entire body covered with tatoos or piercings. A young male that I work with has about 60% of his body tatooed. About half of that was self inflicted. Frankly, some of them are very odd looking. One entire leg is covered with a figure/face of the grim reaper. He might think this is "cool" now but he is "stuck" with this for life. I guess what I am saying is that before you get a tatoo you should weigh the fact that it is permanent. Yes, you can get some removed. It is painful and leaves a permanent scar. I'm not even sure that an MD would remove one the total length of a leg (for example). Certain piercings are not remotely attractive. Ears are one thing. Tongues, lips, etc-anything that can be easily visible to others-can have a revolting effect on the viewer. You might not think this to be true. For example: once you have worked in a nursing home that has aides/CNA's with the nose rings, tongue piercings, etc, you realize the effects it has on the elderly. It can be downright scary to many of them. Our local nursing home recently passed a policy that any piercings that are readily visible (including tongue)-the jewelry MUST be removed prior to start of shift and can not be placed back until after the wearer is done working for the day and clocked out. Most had no problem with that. I guess when all is said and done, I'd like to ask that people just stop and think about the long term effects their choices will have on them (like in 25-30 years-will you still be happy with that grim reaper?). For those who prefer to tatoo and/or pierce to the extreme-just be careful who does them for you and where they are done (sanitation, degree of health risk, etc). If you notice an area of redness, be concerned. If it is also warm to the touch, it is also inflammed. See a doctor. The doctor will not judge you. He/she will just treat you for the infection-which is very important! Enjoy your tatoos and piercings-and be safe!!!

May 26, 2006 9:40:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have my ears two, sets on the lobe and one in the top, i also have my nose pierced because i always wanted it, i never was one to go with "whats cool" i did it for myself, my family forgets its there but i look at myself everyday and see it, im a mom and its important for me to have little things like that for only me, and when my kids grow up and say they want something pierced i'll have a serious discussion with them as to where and why. just like my tattooed dad took me for my first piercing, ill take mine, and it'll be a special thing for both of us.

May 26, 2006 12:05:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I work at claires club and before that was an icing.. I have seen my share of piercings. the most amazing is when little girls come in asking to get their belly button done when we don't even pierce those. They get younger and more brave. I am not sure when they will stop

May 26, 2006 4:41:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

People do not get body parts pierced for attention. They do it b/c they like it.

I previously had my ears pierced four times in each ear. Which included my cartridge.

I even had my eyebrow pierced as soon as I turned 18.

Unfortunately, I no longer have my eyebrow pierced b/c it got infected 5 months after it was pierced.

If I wasn’t a parent, I would re-pierce it again.

May 27, 2006 1:28:00 PM  
Anonymous KassieM said...

I am 29, almost 30 and I have several piercings... I started with my ears, done as a very young girl, now I have two in each ear, then as I got older, maybe I was 21 I did my tongue... later I eventually did my nose. I love them all and I would feel strange without them all. I am a professional, I work in a doctors office and no one even notices my nose or my tongue, unless the topic is brought up and I tell them about it.. I also have two tattoos. I see nothing wrong with piercings, as long as you keep it realistic... nothing like the picture above!!!
That's out of control!

May 27, 2006 3:09:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I believe that the individuals that partake in body modification, just to stand out or be different are doing it for the wrong reason. I am 23 male and have five tattoos and a rook (inner ear cartillage) piercing(I had my toungue peirced but took it out after biting it one too many times while I was eating my breakfast) and I can honestlt say that I dont regret any of them.
The trick to body art is that you get these modifications for you and you alone..only because you like how they look or what they symbolize. There is nothing more tradgic than a person who will scar themselves just for a little of attention. I also think that piercings (exept on the nose for some strange reason) and/or tattoos are exteremly attractvie on women.

Aug 4, 2006 10:06:00 AM  
Anonymous Emily B. said...

I find that body modification is a personal thing. Many say, "oh, you will regret that when your older" or "that will look saggy in 30 or 40 years"
That is fair enough. But what they dont realize is that person, if done for the right reasons, wont care that the tattoo they got is a little saggy, or that people stare at the ring in their lip. They will see a reflection on a time of their lives or an occasion that prob. will give them great joy, or remind them of a point of their life that they survived. Those who are serious about body art know the risks that they take, and what could be in store for them in the future. Some of the posts on this site act as though anybody who does this never thinks about that.
Also, each person has his or her own view on beauty. If people cannot look past a nose piercing, then i pity them and the fact that thier shallowness may be preventing them from knowing a beautiful person. There is also nothing stopping the person thats offended from simply looking away.
On the other hand, I do pity the impressionable people who get them because they think that it will change thier lives and make them more attractive. If you dont love yourself first then a piericing certainly is not going to chnage that. I also dont believe such young children going and getting modifications, as they often have no meaning behind it as they get it done other than, "im going to be so cool when i go back to school" etc
I hate the fact that so many get it done just to follow a trend and cause those of us who get it as a symbol to be grouped into the same class. Perhaps more of the grey areas need to be seen, instead of just the black and white.

Aug 29, 2006 10:49:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

For all of you who say that getting piercings and tattoos are horrible and sluttish, what right do you have to judge them? It’s their body, it’s not like we’ll have it when we die, so why not have it decorated when you’re young and have fun with it? People for ages have been doing piercings (along with other body artwork) all over body and gauging it. For the most part you can always let a piercing grow shut or get the tattoo removed. If people weren’t so judgmental maybe society would be a better place and people would feel more at ease with themselves.

Sep 18, 2006 11:23:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am thinking about getting my nose pierced. I was going to do it for my 30th birthday last Friday and had a few second thoughts. I would like feedback on having my nose pierced. I am going to get a tiny dimond when I have it done. I think it looks sexy. I have my ears pierced seven times and have two tattoos. I am nervous about infection and what kind of risk if any to my newborn nursing daughter.

Feb 21, 2007 12:58:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think you should get it done. i have mine done and i love it!!

Feb 22, 2007 2:25:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If you really want it, go for it. So long as you've thought the decision through and it's not an just an impulse (and judging by your questions I'm sure this is not), you'll probably appreciate this piercing your whole life. Small diamond studs can really enhance one's natural beauty, in my opinion.

About the baby...I'd talk to a doctor first. With proper care, there should be no infections, but it might be safest to wait until you've finished nursing before getting pierced.

Feb 25, 2007 3:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have no clue why people would say peircings beyond ears are trashy. I have my ears peirced and I have my nose peirced and I think it looks great. I have a small diamond stud in my nose and I would recommend that to everyone and anyone that wants to get their nose peirced. It really looks great. To those of you that don't like it, I guess that's your opinion and that's just fine.

Feb 28, 2007 2:49:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

PLEASE HELP -
I have a fat belly, once in a while i have pus and blood coming out. I clean it extra (cause i always clean it), but this time it is pus and hurts. Now being piercing experts, what should i do., By the way i think it a cyst

Please help

Mar 8, 2007 11:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I got my belly pierced when I turned 19, which means Ive had it for 9 years, and NO it was not because I wanted attention or everyone else was doing it. I think it looks nice! I did it for me, know that just becuse were pierced doesnt mean we want your attention! your not that important. No one ever sees it unless I'm wearing a bathing suit.
And for those of you who dont take care of it until it heals like anything else, yes it will get infected, thats just common sense.
Thiking about taking it out now just feels like I'd be losing a part of me.

Mar 14, 2007 4:18:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I got my tongue pierced when I turned 18 and left for college. It was done about a month before my family found out about it. My mom freaked out and gave me this big lecture about how dangerous they are and why I shouldn't have it. I got it done for the simple fact that I had wanted one for years and was told I could not get it done. I think people should just do their own research when it comes to these things and choose whether you want it or not and do not just go along with the crowd or with what someone else says. If it makes you happy then go for it. Also it isn't nearly as bad as a tattoo...most holes close up.

Mar 17, 2007 1:54:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have one tattoo and one peircing.
I have a tattoo on one shoulder and a genital peircing in the frenum. I like my tattoo and my peircing very much and I'll tell you why...

My tattoo has a meaning to me that I have felt for years so I am quite happy with it. As for my peircing... I am a highly sexual person and my peircing heightens my pleasure and sensativity and I love it and have even considered more. Not many people I have met are open to the idea of having their genitals peirced, especially males, and, for good reason. It hurts...

But I chose to do it and have no regrets. I know some people will gasp at the thought of a peircing there, but I feel no reason to be judged for expressing myself and my individuality. I am not embarressed about it nor will anyone ever make me feel ashamed.
I find peoples reactions about it to be quite amusing some times. :)

I had mine professionally done at a well respected establishment with clean materials and I will continue to go there for future peircings and tattoos.

Some people will go to extremes with body art/modification but that's just that person expressing him or herself usually in a non-destructive manor. A self-destructive form of body modification is people who cut themselves. I have a couple friends who have had problems with cutting themselves for what ever reason. I don't understand why they would inflict pain on themselves. Some people have said the same about me. I got my peircing for pleasure. I've never fount cutting myself to be something pleasurable.

Mar 19, 2007 3:23:00 AM  
Anonymous kinkz said...

ahh.. yea. i have a question..
would it be okay to get two cartilage piercings (one on each ear) in the same day!? i dont have any cartilage piercings, so i dont really know!? how bad does it hurt?

Mar 24, 2007 11:18:00 PM  
Anonymous Molly said...

"I am thinking about getting my nose pierced....I would like feedback on having my nose pierced. I am going to get a tiny dimond when I have it done. I think it looks sexy. I have my ears pierced seven times...."

I love my nose piercing. If you have gotten 7 ear piercings, you can handle a nostril one. I'll go ahead and assume that one of those is a cartilage, and tell you that initially nose doesn't hurt as much. Once it is freshly pierced, your nose will be a bit sore and maybe a little red for a couple days. The only issue I have ever had (over a span of nearly two years) was getting boogies stuck behind it when I've been sick XD. In that case, I just take the stud out (once it's completly healed of course) to blow. The healing process was relativly quick also, a few weeks at the most; but of course, times vary from person to person.

To the person asking about two cartilage piercings in one day:
If you are getting one in each ear,go for it. If you are wanting two in one ear, I would hold out. First cartilage piercing is rather painful, and having two in one ear might be a little bit overwhelming.
[I have had 5 cartilage piercings in each ear.]

Mar 28, 2007 9:48:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have my ears gauged,my lip was pierced took it out fur a job interview,and I'm getting my tonge pierced.
Piercings are just something to have fun with.
As long as you don't take it too far.

Apr 2, 2007 6:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have one piercing in one ear and three in another. I also have my navel pierced. I have done none of these because of peer pressure or to "fit in" OR "stand out." I did them because I wanted them done as a way to express myself. A body is just a vesssel, nothing more, so if a person believes that their trueself is not their vessel, they should be able to change it as they wish-wether it be a sex change, piercings, tattoos, etc. I am considering getting my nasal septum pierced, I have wanted it done for about 9 years now, because I am interested in mysticism and the occult and for me, it symbolizes my interest. Knitting is important to me, so I may get a "Hell's Knitter's" tattoo. This is an inside joke between my friends and I, so it'll always be a memory of good times with my friends. Any sort of body modification I do for myself, and to get grouped in with people who get things done for the wrong reason is a bit upsetting for me.

Apr 3, 2007 3:48:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have my bellybutton, nose and ears piercied. And just recently i got a piercing in the middle of my ear. On my left ear everything is all good but on the right side my ear got irratied, i took out the earring. Now my ear is swollen n the skin is all wrinkled. Does that mean that the skin on m ear is now rotten?

Apr 6, 2007 4:30:00 PM  
Anonymous Amanda D. said...

Just for the record, that guy in the picture went to an extreme that typical people will probably never see. I have 2 tattoos and currently 5 piercings, although I am getting 2 more piercings for my birthday. I have 2 in each ear (first set done at 6months old by my doctor) and my right nostril. I will be getting a navel and vertical clitoral hood piercing, because they both look cute, and the second i hear will slightly enhance your sexual experience.

So, I would like to say that many women are born with natural beauty, but it honestly does not matter whether or not you add to it. It's all in personal opinion - some people think it makes you look like a tramp to have a lip pierced, others think that it looks good. Everyone has different opinions, and in terms of getting a piercing, don't be a follower - do it because you want it.

It is really, really important that you go to a decent place to get it done though. All the things your parents tell you about getting diseases from parlors is true - going to the wrong one may cause you to get a disease of some sort. Search around, ask people, ask to meet with the piercist and make an appointment. When you go to get it done, make sure he/she opens everything right in front of you (Same goes with tattoos). You should not feel pressured at all. If you don't feel comfortable, you have the right to leave. And when you do get the piercing, make sure you take care of it.

The piercist may tell you to rotate your new jewelry or not. Only wash it about 2 per day - no more or less. Less than 2 and you will get it dirty. More than 2, and your body will not be able to heal effectively. Use a mild antibacterial, or even just a saline solution to get it clean if you're not prone to infection and have a good immune system.

And yes, you can definately get more than one piercing at a time. I got my 2nd holes in my ears and my nose piercing in the same day.

I think it's a shame that a lot of people are so judgemental. Having a tongue ring or a belly button ring does not make you a lesser person, or unprofessional. All it should ever indicate is that you are into different things than the people who do not have these piercings. We all have different styles, and what we wear or have on our bodies is a way to show them. Some decorate their homes different, some dye their hair different clothes. None of these things make you a bad person, an unprofessional worker, or a crazed lunatic. These are all just things that have been instilled in peoples' minds as they become adults.

Anyway, there are my 2 cents on the issue. Happy piercing, everyone!

Apr 10, 2007 1:50:00 AM  
Blogger kj said...

This picture is "photoshopped" and is in no way real.

However; beyond trends, there is an entire experience, through and beyond the healing process, by which one experiences potentially great return, involved in creating and enlarging fistulae.

If it's not for you, who cares? But, don't condemn it.

Apr 14, 2007 9:04:00 PM  
Blogger Kate said...

I would like to know why others choosing to get pierced concerns you. I see it as a method of self-expression, and to each their own.

I have had many piercings, none of which, in my opinion, have had anything to do with you. I did not do it to shock you, to offend you, to entice you. I did not do it to showcase my non-conformist views. I did it because I liked the way it accentuated my looks. I did it because I wanted to try something new.

I thought long and hard about each piercing I have ever had, and made sure I did it in an exceptionally clean environment. And even though my likes have changed and I have long since removed the majority of my piercings, I have never regretted getting them, because it was something I did for myself, and not for or inspite of you.

Apr 15, 2007 1:50:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Help. My 18yr old daughter is plannng to get her nose pierced at the end of the week. Both my wife an I have tried unsuccessfully to talk her out of it. I am hoping to somone will pass on some compelling arguments to relay which will change her mind. Thanks

Apr 17, 2007 2:42:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love the ignorant people who've commented. I have three piercings in my face and I'm far from trashy. Some of us just enjoy body modification, it doesn't make us bad people.

Apr 19, 2007 7:15:00 AM  
Anonymous Christa. said...

I'm terribly afraid of needles.. Always have been, always will be. So no amount of peer pressure is going to get me to put one in my body unless I want it there. I have two piercings in each earlobe, the first pair stretched to a 0g. I also have my traigus (that little nubbin in your ear.) done. I also have one small tattoo of a horseshoe, and just got finished with my second tattoo.. a cherry blossom tree that starts at the middle of my hip and ends near the top of my ribcage. They hurt like hell, I'm not doing it for attention!
Honestly, piercings and tattoos are getting to be more and more common, which will eventually lead to them being more socially acceptable. If it really bothers you, try and live above it? Don't put people down for it, don't call them trashy or low class.. It's not just a small subculture of people that take part in body modification. It's not mutilation or a cry for attention. It's an individual's choice, let them make it and don't be so quick to judge!

Apr 20, 2007 1:54:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have been wanting to get my nose pierced for 3 years. The only reason why I haven't is because it doesn't comply with my school's dresscode. My parents are totally chill about it primarily because nose piercing has been a part of Indian culture for a pretty long time. While I don't live in India, I'm proud of my culture and have no uneasy thoughts about get my nose pierced. Those who frown at nose piercings, specifically the ones rooted in culture and tradition, are ignorant pigs. Oh, and for those who think nose piercings make a girl look "cheap", my 76 year old grandmother has had her nose pierced since before she was married and she is the definition of beautiful.

Apr 22, 2007 3:05:00 AM  
Anonymous Francesca said...

I have 12 ear piercings, 7 lobe, 3 cartilage, 1 tragus and 1 daith. My nose pierced once, my naval and my tounge. I got them done because I think they look good. Its up to the person what they do their body.
Although i agree with the fact it can scare some elderly people in care homes or not, I work with people with dementia and most of them love my piercings, although i do take my lobe ones out 'coz the can be easily grabbed. I think the elderly are much more accpeting of different people, eg i hav hair an inch long on 1 side of my head curving around my neck to much longer on the other side, its cherry red, my piecrings are usually quite visible, but they are all very accepting because they are pleased to have someone to talk to them, unlike some of their "conventional" relatives who do not take the time to visit them.
having piercings is just like wearing differnt clothes. you wouldnt judge some1 if they were wearing a coloured top you didnt like.
I am an honnest caring profesional, look past the pircings, take the time to talk to me and you will find out im not as scary as i look.

Apr 27, 2007 3:10:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i had gotten my nose pierced once and it got ripped out by accident and i couldnt get it back in so i let it close up and about a month later i got it done again and it was fine for the first 6 weeks and then out of nowhere a bump pops up and i thought it was a pimple so i ignored it and let it be it had been there for a month and finally i got worried and asked my neighbor who is a nurse and my mom's friend's girlfriend who also is a nurse and they both said it was infected so i took it out and began treating it today but if i could have i would have done anything to stop the infection
because it is embarassing to say you had to take your nose ring out because it got infected it makes a person sound dirty and noncaring...oh and belly rings are not trashy my mom has one

Apr 29, 2007 4:14:00 PM  
Anonymous Marleena said...

Keloids usually come only when the piercing is done with a "piercing-gun", wich is very common in ordinary jewelry shops. And the piercing-guns can't be totally sterilized because of the plastic parts that would melt. So no-one should get anything pierced in a place where they use those guns.
I have many piercings and with proper care they have never infected. Don't do your piercings yourself!

May 2, 2007 11:11:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Piercings, at least in my own case, are a personal thing. I started many years ago and it wasn't so much the look (although it is a positive) as the adrenaline rush just before a needle runs through your flesh. I'm 15 now, having my first piercings at age 7. I have a lip piercing I did myself two years ago, 7 piercings going up one ear and 4 on the other, 4 of which I did myself, too. I've pierced my tongue webbing but I found it was just annoying so I removed it. I get asked a hell of a lot why I want my piercings in because I'm such a "beautiful young woman" and the truth is if you don't have any and you talk down upon it, you're just a hypocrit.

May 6, 2007 5:13:00 PM  
Blogger Emerald said...

There's a lot of ignorant people commenting here. I have two piercings in each lobe, one gauged, and one I never wear. I got the first holes when I was 5, and the second for my 14th birthday. For my 19th birthday I got a clitoral hood piercing, and over the year I also got a labret, a navel, and an anti-eyebrow. My anti-eyebrow was never meant to be permanent - because of the bone structure of the face, the piercing eventually pushes through the skin. I also had to remove my navel piercing when I was 7 months pregnant with my son because the skin just couldn't support the piercing any longer.
For my 21st birthday, I got my first tattoo - my best friend and I got matching tattoos that I drew myself. They are beautiful and they will signify the bond we have had through the worst and best times of our life.
Tomorrow, I plan to go with her to get another piercing.
I am not a trashy person. I am a good mother, and I am studying to be a geneticist, so I am not dumb. And I'm definitely not a trend-monger. I don't do any of my body modification for other people. It is for me, and for my definition of beauty. I am a beautiful young woman, and my piercings do not detract from that, only enhance it.

May 9, 2007 1:50:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm a female and already have peircings, and want to get a lip peircing. But I was recently told by my surgeon that I have keloids, they formed after my gallbladder surgery. and I was wondering if my lip would keliod. and I was also planning to get a tattoo too.

May 9, 2007 11:50:00 PM  
Blogger B Jones said...

I am a 26 year old female office professional. I have a number of piercings.... tapered ears (1/2 inch holes as well as 1/4 inch holes) in my lobes, cartilage piercings, and a labret (middle lip). I also have a number of tattoos... I'm currently working on a full back piece and have a 3/4 length sleeve on my right arm.
HOWEVER, I am a professional, and no one (whether at my office or elsewhere) sees my piercings or my artwork - yes, I said artwork rather than tattoos. I have them for ME. Not for the public. Not to scare people. Not to influence others to get work done. I did it all for ME. I love the art, and I LOVE that it will be permanent! Every tattoo and every piercing (my holes are too big to return to normal) is there forever, and unlike most people's assumptions on here, I HAVE thought about the future.... I will be the 85 year old lady in the nursing home covered in tattoos. The elderly's ears stretch anyway, mine will just be a bit bigger... and my jewelry will be better and more creative than everyone else's, just like they are now. Sure, my tattoos will sag and get wrinkled along with my skin, but I have taken all that into account with my artist, so we went big so when I am 85 they will still look good.
I suppose what I'm trying to say here is this: not every tattooed & pierced person is "conforming" or "trying to get attention" or "doesn't think ahead"... we are the professionals that you see and speak to every single day and respect. But our work lives are different than our home lives, just like everyone else.... we just prefer to decorate our skin - which is, after all, our permanent home. Why shouldn't we decorate it the way we choose? And preferably, without judgment. If your child is afraid of those with ink, maybe it is because people like you are pulling the kid away and showing the child that these people are scary and intimidating and even LESS of a person for how they look. That, to me, seems a bit discriminatory. Try teaching these children that people are different and like different things, and not to be afraid of something new.

As for the gentleman who asked if there was any scientific or medical benefit to piercings and/or tattoos.... not really. Some people claim there is a sexual benefit for certain piercings (none of which I have). Also, there have been studies done where it has been found that tattoos have a cooling effect on people who live in very hot desert regions (similar to the effects of Henna/Mehndi applications). Other than that, percings and tattoos are strictly adornments and religious applications.

May 15, 2007 1:51:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

benefits.....well, personal self acceptance..but thats simply mental

scientific..well.. sexual for certain types of piercings...but ultimately, no, not really. and absolutely no scientific benefits for tattoos.

to the guy asking about the corset....VERY high rejection rate, slightly lower infection rate....theres almost no chance of actually keeping a corset piercing permenant...my friend got a 40 point corset...he ended up ripping most of them out himself as they were already half rejected...plus, very hard to care for considering you cant reach...buuut.. aesthetically.... gorgeous!!



as of now ive taken out 3 nostril piercings (parents) 5 ear piercings (infections, work), 2 tongue web piercings (ripped out..not painful though)
i now have my septum and vertical labret pierced, my nipples, and 8 lobe piercings total.....

makes getting a job a bit more interesting, but makes me happy. ive tried taking some of them out... i jsut feel incomplete, theyve grown to become a part of who i am. tattoos.... i love them..but, im a very transient person, i change too much and too fast to have something that will be forever, i admire those that do though...especially older people who still show off their old ink.

body modification should hopefully be self completion...not a power trip with your parents or a scream for attention.

my names savvy.. if needed..pinklymayo476@aol.com

May 17, 2007 9:05:00 PM  
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May 20, 2007 7:05:00 PM  
Blogger Terri said...

ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO I GOT A BELLY RING DONE NOW BEING A TYPE ONE DIABETIC IT ENDED UP GETTING INFECTED. I DON'T KNOW IF ITS BECAUSE I SLEEP ON MY STOMACH HAVE IT COVERED UP ALL THE TIME AND IT WASN'T ABLE TO BREATH IDK. I HAVE OTHER PIERCINGS THAT ARE GOOD NO PROBLEMS BUT SINCE I TOOK OUT THE RING IT FEELS ALL HARD AND BUMPY WHAT SHOULD I DO BESIDES CLEAN IT WITH ANTIBACTERIAL SOAP.

May 20, 2007 7:10:00 PM  
Anonymous Erika said...

I got my bellybutton piercing done in late December of 2006...it was all fine and starting to heal until around late March when it got infected from i dont know what. How can i heal it and get rid of the infection? what medicines or ointments or solutions could i use? Or what's the best and quickest way?

May 23, 2007 7:07:00 PM  
Blogger JBres26 said...

The man in the picture looks so gross. How can anyone do that to themselves. What I really want to know is, when he drinks, does the liquid come out of the 300 holes in his face?
He's going to regret this when he is older. What a waste of money too.

May 26, 2007 2:54:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 13 years old and I have my ears pierced,nose and getting my belly button done in 5 days , whoever says bellybuttons are trashy has issues they're so cute and makes your belyy worth looking at I can't wait !!

Jun 1, 2007 8:05:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

oops i meant "belly"

Jun 1, 2007 8:06:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Think about it this way: You guys all remember people you've seen pierced. You've all given a reaction, whether it was disgust/amazement. . what have you.

So apparently, it's a method of standing apart that works.

I think that the hatred or dislike of piercings/tattoos are just a misunderstanding. Not everyone is doing it "just to be cool." So why judge EVERYONE with some ink or a few holes?

Whatever happened to "Love Thy Neighbor?"

Jun 3, 2007 4:09:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Those people that are saying "you'll regret it when you're older".. I don't see why I would regret doing something that made me happy at the time I did it. I think a lot about every mod I have and usually love each one so much I could never regret having it.

And I think a few saggy tattoos are the last thing I am going to be worrying about when I'm 80..

Jun 6, 2007 4:27:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think 1 ear piercing on each ear will be all right and maybe 1 or 2 will be ok also but like millions on your face and private parts NOT OK!!!I mean not to be mean but you should have stoped this from happening.Do you think she looks in the mirror and thinks "what have i done ?"Maybe you can convince her from taking them off and let the holes close so you can see her beautiful face. =-) I'm going to get a piercing sometime this week and i'm just 10. But not any piercing on my FACE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jun 7, 2007 6:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Regan said...

Most of the posts above were just left by ignorant people. Piercings and tattoos are a form of expression, not meant to seek attention. I'm young. 13. But I'm not stupid or ignorant. I like the way piercings look on people, although it seems some people are only getting pierced to fit a stereotype. I agree with the former comment. Septum piercings were really rad, but now everyone is getting them. Trendy or scene? Your body is art, if you choose to decorate it, it proofs you are unique. Not slutty or trashy. I don't really think that the girl in the picture is extreme. An example: Jeffree Star. He is becoming increasing popular, and he has a lot of tattoos, along with most bands. No one seems to think less of celebrities if they get body art, so why is it such a large issue in society? Add me on myspace? www.myspace.com/whitelightxrefraction.

Jun 8, 2007 4:10:00 AM  
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Jun 11, 2007 2:32:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think you're a hypocrite. You pierced your daughters ears at the age of two without her consent, and then talk about how you would never have anything pierced yourself. You make me sick.

Jun 11, 2007 3:16:00 PM  
Anonymous brit said...

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Jun 13, 2007 10:43:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh people, people. Piercings are so temporary. Relax, please. I have had my ears pierced since I was in kindergarten-- Had my second holes in 6th or 7th grade-- Had my bellybutton in 9th grade-- And just got my forward helix. I have never *knock-on-wood* had an infection in any of my piercings. I am by no means a freak or a loser. In fact, I am a well-known, upstanding part of my community.

How I see it is if your body tends to overreact to foreign objects, then don't put your body through it and if you don't want to pierce yourself... then don't. I got my ears pierced both times because i wanted to (And yes, even in kindergarten.) As for me, the piercings I get are in my favorite areas. I love my ears, so I adorn them (And not to the extent that they look like a hunk of scrap-metal.) I adorned my stomach because i like that part of me too. It's all based on personal opinion.
To sum it up: If it's not your body, why should what you think matters? If it's not hurting you, why should it matter to you? So many of these arguments are based on stereotypes. Do not use a stereotype as a basis for an argument, it makes you sound like a close-minded "Old Betty."
Individuality is a beautiful thing. You don't have to like what others are doing, just don't thrust your personal tastes onto others.

Jun 19, 2007 11:34:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im 14 and i want three piercings. snake bites (which are two piercings on the bottom lip) and my navel (or belly button) I don't think its really following the crowd. i want them for myself and not to show off. i don't even have my ears pierced. (they closed up about a month after i took them out because i forgot about them.) My mother wouldn't mind if i got them either, because i have the right body for the belly button, and the snake bites is some trend i've adored for years. not many people have snake bites, so its almost original too.

whoever thinks piercings are immature and wrong should stop talking and fall in a ditch.
sorry but thats how i feel

and PS: Don't say I'm immature and wrong because this is what i believe. I'm my own individual and am probably more mature, respective, and courteous than half of you on here.

Jun 25, 2007 10:45:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have gauged my ears to 00's, so almost an inch in diameter, have two lip rings, an eyebrow piercing, nipple rings, a bar through the skin over my adam's apple, and a prince albert! i love getting pierced.....its better than drugs, right?

Jun 27, 2007 7:19:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

why is tha people think it is ok to have one pair of earrings in their ear and think everything else is mutilation or crazy? you know our bodies are not even meant to have that one set of earrings. thats so hypocritical. its ok to pierce your ears but not your nose or your tongue. please dont say your old fashioned. that just means that was the normal thing to do back then. i have my tongue pierced to a 2g. and i had 2 sets of earrings in my ears. one at 1/2" and one at 1". while i was going up to 1" it got horribly infected and i am going to the doctors tomorrow. why is that everybody thinks that all people with abnormal piercings are trying to get attention. i forst got my ears pierced because my brother had his done. then i gauged them instead of cutting myself. it helped my emotional pain go away or i atleast forgot about it. i had them because i myself liked them. do not preach about how horrible body piercings are. get to know the people. they are just like you and i. nothing different but a couple more holes. why would somebody gauge they ears out(which hurts bad) to get attention when most people think its sickening to look at? tell me that.

todd

Jun 29, 2007 12:02:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well wat do u fink of ear stretchings (making peircing holes bigger if u dont no) i have mine done to 5mm at da mo and plan 2 go to 12mm i take care of it sterelise the jewlerry b4 i put new 1s in and clean it everyday alot of ppl hate it and fink it looks crap but i like it and fink its cool lookn im only goen to 12mm cos if u go more dan 16mm den it will never close over and i mightnt always want it im 17 do u fink im being immature and senseless doen this evn thoue i have everything planned and know wat im doen

Jun 30, 2007 9:58:00 PM  
Anonymous WEBBY said...

Wow, some of you are really judgemental. You keep saying "leave it as God intended", well what happened to looking passed the surface and letting God do the judging? Piercings do NOT make one look "cheap" and "slutty", but having such an ignorant opinion is pretty cheap and disgusting!

Jul 4, 2007 7:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm a guy who is now 58. I had both my ears pierced when I was 18. I liked them so much I now have 10 earrings in each ear. Also my nipples done twice. I don't care what other people think. It is self expression.

Jul 5, 2007 11:01:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have 5 piercings on my body. I recently (saturday) had my second rook piercing put in and I love it. I chose to get my piercings not because it was the "cool" thing to do or becaues "everybody was doing it". I chose to get my piercings because they're more an accent rather than the entirety of my character. I am currently a student in a Nursing program and I know that I will keep my earrings in until a boss (i.e. someone who pays my paycheck) tells me to take them out.

As for piercings being "slutty" and "cheap", this is a sterotype. If some people choose to live up to it then so be it, however, one should not be judged based on decisions they've made for themselves. The cleanest person on the outside could be the sluttiest or cheapest person one has ever met, and while this is cliche, looks can be deceiving.

Jul 9, 2007 8:59:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 15 and currently have 7 piercings. 6 in my ears and my belly button. I turn 16 this week and for my birthday I am getting a rook piercing and also 1 more in the lobe of each ear. I am getting them done because I want them and no other reason. I want them because I like how they look and I think they will suit me. None of my friends have very wacky piercings or anything so I do not feel that I am doing it to follow the crowd but also accept that a lot of people do it so I'm not saying I'm a non conformist. I just don't like the way some people think of piercings they are shallow minded. I have no issue with people who don't wish to have them fair enough it's your body but when you look down on people who have more than the normal 1 in each ear then it's just dam inconsiderate and you need to leave us to make our own decisions. Just for the record I plan to be an army officer when I'm 18 after completing my a levels so it's not just thugs and wastes of time who get piercings done. Quit judging cos it's pathetic.

Jul 10, 2007 8:03:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

oh yea p.s. i'm in air cadets too which is highly disciplined and teach dance. My students love my piercings and I take them out for cadets. If anything piercings are artwork and a responisibility if you can handle it then go for it. If everyone was as open minded as those 7 year olds the world would be a better place.

Jul 10, 2007 8:30:00 PM  
Anonymous Will said...

I am 14, I have 2 piercings, one in my ear and one on the side of my lip. A few of my friends have piercings. My parents wouldent let me so I did it myself :P. Neither my lip or ear got infected

Jul 23, 2007 10:44:00 PM  
Blogger Bb said...

i was just wondering how you decided to poke holes in your daughters ears without her consent and yet you claim that you "arent a big fan of intentional pain" and "I will leave this world with the same number of natural holes that I had when I was born".

im sure your two year old really appreciated you making that decision for her, not even being able to understand what was going on, just having a stranger shove metal rods through her ears.

awesome job, there.

Jul 30, 2007 10:17:00 PM  
Anonymous Chelsea said...

I have mt ears peirced, and tried putting 6G into my ears. I only got to about 12. My ears were soar and when I took them out, they started to bleed. The stretcher was plastic. I regret buying the plastic one. The surgical steal one probably wouldn't have caused as much irratation. Oh well, I intend on gauging my ears again sooner or later.

Aug 2, 2007 3:58:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is ridiculous. Piercings won't get infected if they're properly taken care of, especially in the ear. Really, the moral of the story is to WASH YOUR PIERCING.

Seeing as you seem to work in some kind of medicine, you should know that your mouth is one of the dirtiest places in your body. Your tongue is also the most dangerous to get infected, because if your tongue swells too much, your air way can close and death can occur.

I was one of the unfortunate children that got my stud stuck in my ear lobe. Like the actual jewel became embedded in my ear. That hurt, but it's easily fixed by taking pliers to the stud sticking out and, um, pulling the jewel out.

And Anesthesia would be a waste of money to most piercings. I had an industrial done, the pain doesn't really start until somebody hits your ear. (It also hurts if you don't wash you ear. I hate to nag.)

I would have been more interested in your take on how the piercing actually happens. There are the piercing guns (which happen to leave surrounding tissue trauma) versus needles (which are okay until you take the needle out and have to stick the bar in a fresh wound.)

Aug 9, 2007 7:08:00 PM  
Anonymous NPmommy said...

I am 23 years old, married, and a mother. I have my ears pierced twice and my navel pierced. While I was pregnant I took my navel piercing out. I have finally gotten back to my prepregnancy size and would like to have my navel ring back in. Unfortunately the hole has closed up almost all the way. Should I have it repierced professionally? Will that be painful?

Aug 10, 2007 1:18:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm not a big fan of body piercings and tatoos on myself but if others choose them...More power to you! I have contemplated a tatoo several times but I can't fathom doing such a permanent action to myself that will not look the same in my old age. Also, I've seen other women with tatoos, and in my opinion, it takes away from the beauty of a woman in her wedding dress or a formal gown. It does look cute to me if she were in her bathing suit or in a casual situation. Also, I find that in the workplace clients do not take someone seriously with visible tatoos.

Aug 10, 2007 1:28:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im a teenager and i have my ears pierced once. i personally think it is absolutly disgusting to have a lot of piercings. i mean 2 in the ears is not bad. but anything else looks horrible. why would you ruin your body. anyone who has their face and tongue pierced makes them look less beautiful then they really are, the peircing take away from their beauty and thats all i can seem to stair at when i am talking to them. especially when they get older and still have them. that's just gross.

Aug 10, 2007 8:22:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't really understand what the big deal of piercings and tattoos are. Look at it from other points of view. A tattoo memorializing a loved one that passed away, doesn't need to have "R.I.P" on it. It could be as simple as a flower. To you, the outsider, it could be looked at as trashy, but to that person.. it's something that will be with them reminding them of their loved one for the rest of their life.

As for the people saying "You'll regret it when you're older." you really need to step back. Because nine out of ten, says that you're the ones who're saying "Live life to it's fullest."

If "God" didn't want you to have piercings, and tattoos, why would "he" let such a thing be here? After all, "he" could've stopped the idea that was put into someone's head right? Right.

Piercings, oh my my.
I'm seventeen and have seven. I have two lobe on each ear, two cartilage on my right, and one on my left. I see nothing wrong with them. I don't have crazy jewelry in them either. They're all diamond and yellow gold studs. Two of which, are real gold and diamonds that I got for my Sweet Sixteenth Birthday.

Soon, along about my 18th birthday, I hope to get two tattoos:
A three flower bouquet on the top of my right foot, and a butterfly on the back of my neck. BOTH places that can be hidden if need be. They both mean something to me though, the butterfly would show that I've got my wings now, and that I've grown into an adult so I can leave "the nest". The three flowers would symbolize my mother, father, and sister; the three most important people in my life.

Getting a tattoo, or piercing is something for yourself. I agree, the people who get them for the attention aspect, are wrong in doing so. But you've got to stop and think.. hair cuts, which are in no way as permanent I understand, but I'm very sure that you've gotten your hair cut either A) the same way as someone you know, or a celebrity, or B) done something completely crazy with it because you liked it. Same with highlights, and all those other things. You do it to look good, to feel good, to get attention.

What about piercings and tattoos that from ancient times, such as tribals? And piercings are part of some religions. Are those considered "crazy, slutty, trashy" as well? Or is this just another double standard that people have created?

Bottom line.. it's not your body. Don't judge someone else because of the things they do. Get over it, and get over yourselves.

Aug 15, 2007 1:05:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a marilyn monroe piercing (which is a beauty mark piercing above my lip) I also have my nipples done and I have about 10 tattoos. I am not worried about how I'll look when I'm older because I enjoy the art that I have on my body!!

Aug 15, 2007 4:35:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 16 years old and a female I have six piercings. I have three piercings on each lobe of my ears. I really love my piercings and I want to get at least four more. I want one in the cartilage of both my ears, and one on the rook of both of my ears. I am also interested in getting two tattoos (a shamrock and a celtic cross). I think that if piercings leave the head, with the exception of the navel, then they are completely innapropriate. As far as I am concerned with tattoos if they can be covered with clothing then there is no problem. Some people think that getting piercings and tattoos is all about attention, and for some people it is. For most people it is about expression. Who cares if you have tattoos and your old if you can cover them up with clothing there should be no problem. When your in your seventies you probably won't be wearing a bikini anyway. If you get it done right in a safe and clean environment there should be no problems. For those who think body art is gross all I can say is to each his own. Some people just say they don't like body art because they are afraid of what they do not understand. I personally think that body can be beautiful!

Aug 17, 2007 12:40:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't have anything pierced, as I am deathly afraid of needles, I think my mother tried to force me to get my ears done when I was little but I REGRETABLY refused. Now, I'm so paniced, I avoid that part of Clair's All together LOL. I'm 20, and my girl has the prettiest little Eyebrow piercing done, I can't imagine her without it. She just looks so freakin' adorable. She wants to get another piercing, I've suggested her toungue. Something that can be easily taken care of, ya know? Myself, I LOVE seeing people with piercings and tattoos, I think they're works of art and admire the pain and suffering they go through to reach that goal. The only tattoo I didn't like was a man I saw who had the word SLUT written across his knuckles. I don't know the story behind the tattoo, but it just seemed totally inappropriate. And disgusting.

That's all :D

Aug 20, 2007 7:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 19, and I have two piercings on each earlobe, an industrial (a barbell that reaches from one side of the ear to the other, which requires two separate holes) and just recently got a conch (a ring on the inner part of lower cartilage on the ear). I also have a small tattoo on my right calf, and a large tattoo that covers the entire left side of my ribcage. I am planning on getting my entire back tattooed soon. I love my tattoos and my piercings, I find them beautiful, and I could really care less if they bother other people. My mother severely dislikes my body modification, tattoos especially, but I just tell her that my body is my temple, and I'm just decorating it. Think about it.. have you ever seen any church, temple, or mosque without decoration? I am not a bad or unintelligent person because I choose to modify my body. There are worse things people could be doing to themselves besides adding piercings and tattoos. True, they were painful (especially my rib tattoo), but I have no regrets about any of them.
By the way, I am planning on being a teacher, so I am not going to be getting anything large tattooed on myself that cannot be disclosed. I'm disappointed that people are so quick to judge those of us who have tattoos and piercings, but I know that's how it goes, so I refuse to do anything that may conflict with my profession. People ask me how I will feel about my tattoos and piercings once I'm older, but I'm pretty sure that I'll have bigger things to worry about when I reach the age that I can no longer take care of myself.
And by the way, it really bothers me when parents force their infants to get their ears pierced, because not only do they have absolutely no say in the matter, they also have no idea what is going on. I find it to be abusive, in a way. Part of why I love my piercings and tattoos is because they were my decision.

Aug 21, 2007 7:46:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 33. And I just a few days ago got my second tattoo. For years I debated about getting the first one done. I'm also Native American, I was born on an indian reservation in Texas..so tattoos were all meant something..definitely not a trend thing for us. All I can say is a tattoo is a great thing of pure expression. Mine are small, one you can't see the other is in the inside of my left wrist. Which I can hide if want. But both mean alot to me!! AND that is whats important what it means to you. I also love piercings. I have my belly button done and two on each ear and up until recently I had both my nipples pierced. I finally decided to remove those. I kinda regret doing it now, I wish I would have left them in. But I guess I had them long enough. I fortunately have been lucky with my piercings, no infections. They all went pretty smooth. And the good thing about piercings is you can always simply take them out and thats that... It's all about voice of expression.

Aug 23, 2007 7:19:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that piercings and tattoos are ok if you do them right. It isnt cool to have so many piercings that all I think of when I see you is WHY DID THEY DO THAT!!! I want to get my belly button pierced but I am afraid of the pain doews it hurt that bad?? I hope not!!! I also have to talk my mom into it!!! I want two tatoos and I will get them done when I am 18 because it will take me that long to decide what fits me. I hope that people out there dont judge or talk bad about anybody with a few piercings and tattoos because if they did it they obviously wanted it because they care about it. I think that anyone with any judgements about people who like tatooes and piercings should consider other peoples feelings about the way they want their bodies to be presented. Dont worry about them worry about yourself as an individual and go with whatever you want because anyone could acomplish anything and nothing is wrong with having piercings and tattoes to help them remind themselves about how they want to live their life!!!!

Aug 27, 2007 7:59:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have my left ear done 4 times and my right one done 3 times and i have my tragus peirced and my nose
i LOVE it i love peircings i dont like when people go super extreme about them tho and get their lip peirced like 4 times thats gross some peircings are weird like the backwards eyebrow or w.e but im getting my eyebrow peirced in a month and im so excited
my mom has a monroe and her nose done and no shes not trashy!
i do think its trashy when people peirce themselve
gross
if you really want the peircing save up yuor money and get it done PROFESSIONALLY its just nasty to do it yourself gross =[

Aug 28, 2007 11:40:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree and disagree with what the majority here are saying...

Do people with excessive piercings have problems? Maybe... but I think it's unfair to jump to conclusions.

However, I say maybe, speaking for myself. Clinical depression runs in my family, and when I was 15 I started having issues with it too. Somehow my depression left me with a cutting problem.

But, with counseling, and the heartbreak of losing friends and seeing tears in my family's eyes, I finally recovered from my cutting problem.

Until I noticed something soon after I quit cutting... I began piercing myself like an addiction. I was only about 17...and I didn't really realize it until I already had several piercings, that everytime I felt stressed, depressed, or angry, I'd end up piercing one, two, or even three different areas of my body. Maybe it was a form of cutting...but this was more socially acceptable, so I wouldn't get yelled at for it, or put in the mental hospital.

I took half of them out, because self-piercing rarely heals correctly. And I calmed down for a while with the piercings.

I was left with three in each ear, my belly button, and my nose...

But, recently I added a couple more: the labret (lower lip oral piercing) and eyebrow. However...these days my piercings aren't due to any mental health issue.

As I grew older, and broke away from my conservative family, and started to really study the history of human kind, and other cultures, along with spirituality... I also became interested in body art for different reasons.

Some might say that piercing is "stupid" because it's painful, or whatever else--- but most of all it is a spiritual experience for me. The healing process, to me, is beautiful, and I take great care with it. Unlike some people that might do it solely for fashion or the initial "rush", I strictly adhere to aftercare instructions, and treat my body with great care during the process.

I suppose in some manner this could be related to a past mental health issue as well--- I had struggled with an eating disorder for years... and if anyone here has had any FIRST HAND experience that, would understand just how OUT of touch you become with your body during an eating disorder.

My piercings remind me that my body requires effort and care to keep healthy. And the healing process keeps me on the right track to stay eating healthy.

I'm also highly interested in tribal traditions and lifestyle, and piercing and tattooing is a part of that. In the "civilized" world we live in today, we tend to forget our roots... we tend to forget that at one time, the human species didn't have air conditioned homes, and supermarkets where food was readily available... instead humans acted as a pack, hunted that way, and tattoos and piercings were used for different purposes, one being to distinguish themselves as part of a certain tribe. Observe the styles of piercings and tattoos shown between two tribes in the movie Apocalypto.

In ancient Egypt piercings were worn to show beauty and wealth, as well as biblical times.

Nipple piercings in Roman culture were used to signify their strength and virtility.

Anyhow, my point is, piercings like these are no where near a "new" trend, and if you looked to the root of human culture, you might not see piercings as trashy or "stupid".

There isn't anything wrong with having modern, conservative beliefs, but please don't forget where you came from.

As far as infections go... they can happen for several reasons, and unfortunately many doctors aren't properly trained to deal with piercing infections, because piercing is not a studied science. For example, many doctors will tell someone with an infected piercing to take the jewelry out...but anyone who is knowledgeable on piercings, understands that to take the jewelry out during infection can actually be MORE problematic. The jewelry stops the open wounds from closing up, and during the infection, the open wound actually aids draining of the infection. If you take the jewelry out, the hole can close up and form an absess over the infected area.

Anti-biotics and proper cleaning will treat an infection without having to remove the jewelry. Removal of the jewelry before healing is complete can be risky, because the wound is left open to bacterias and pollutants.

I'm surprised nobody really discussed gauging.

Gauging (the stretching of the hole) is however more risky than standard piercings. First of all gauging isn't a process usually performed by a piercer (though I'm sure it can be done), but by the individual. An issue amongst younger people who aren't knowledgeable on piercing and such, is that they will go into the process of stretching their ears, without realizing that gauging, depending on the size you are going to, takes anywhere from months to YEARS.

Several people I know gauged their ears with utter impatience, and decided to push a bigger piece of jewelry through before the last gauge was properly healed, and end up tearing at the skin which makes infection more of a risk.

Proper gauging requires pushing a taper through the piercing as far as it will go WITHOUT any pain. If you feel pain, you have gone too far and have broken the skin. Once it is through, you must let it heal another 1-2 months as with any regular piercing, and then and only then should you proceed with stretching again.

Another issue in terms of infection is the material the jewelry is made with. There's so many different types available, but only 1-2 types should be used. Surgical steel and titanium are the appropriate mediums to be used, yet, acrylic, pyrex, glass, etc. are readily available and have varying affects on each individual.

Never get anything PLATED. Gold plated, silver plated, or copper, or antique finished jewelry. This can irritate even completely healed piercings.

The only infections I have ever had in piercings were due to the use of bad quality jewelry. My ear was infected twice... Both times that they were infected, I had been using acrylic jewelry. Some may get by just fine using it, but it is NOT advisable.

Poor aftercare is the biggest culprit for infection. Either piercers aren't being informative enough with their customers, or the individual ignores it... but either way, anyone who wants a piercing should understand the only proper way to care for a healing piercing is with fragrance-free, color-free soap and water and optional (and suggested) warm water + sea salt soaks. You should NEVER use alcohol, hydgrogen peroxide, ointments, etc. And washing should only be performed 1-2 times daily...overwashing will hinder healing, as it can dry it out and irritate the piercing.

Daily vitamins including vitamin C and Zinc are suggested for good health for proper healing, as well as eating a balanced diet, avoiding smoking or drinking, etc.

Never play with a new piercing, and if you MUST touch it, always thoroughly wash your hands first. Keep bedding clean, change it frequently especially if you have pets. Keep the piercing away from makeup, your shampoo, etc.

The problem is too many people don't put much effort into the aftercare of their piercing.

I think I've said enough... but everyone has their opinions... so just as much as those against piercings should remember it isn't their body, their choice, and everyone has a mind of their own, those who enjoy piercings, need to be aware of the complications in society that come along with it. (i.e. difficulty finding jobs, etc.)

I love my piercings, but I do not recommend piercings to anyone who doesn't have the knowledge, or drive to put lots of effort into keeping them healthy.

I also want to note that... for those who believe ear lobe piercings are somehow better than other piercings... they are quite literally the same thing (with the exception of surface piercings: nape, bridge, etc) They heal the same, and have the same risks as any other piercing. I have had MORE issues with ear lobe piercings than others, because it is difficult to keep hair out of the way, you place objects like dirty phones on your ears, and sleep on your ears. The ONLY reason ear lobe piercings are more socially acceptable is because they are more well known, and older to our culture.

When ear piercing first exploded in modern culture, it was just as frowned upon as these "new" facial and body piercings.

Ear piercings, also, are highly misunderstood, and are unfortunately too easy to obtain. I.E. Wal-Mart ear piercings. Most of these piercings performed are NOT done by a certified piercer, and are done at too small of a gauge to heal correctly, AND are sometimes done with piercing guns which put too much stress on the skin. Places like Claire's and Wal-Mart might give you an ear piercing cleaning solution, which should NEVER be used because it promotes infection. Many of these places use too short of jewelry to accompany any initial swelling.

Piercings should only be done by a certified piercer, with a clamp, and a hollow end needle, using a piece of jewelry made of surgical steel at the proper gauge and washed with antibacterial soap.

People really need to do their research and THAT is the issue.

Thanks.

Sep 6, 2007 11:54:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I also want to note that how an individual dresses, including piercings isn't someone else's place to judge.

To label it as "trashy" is ridiculous and ignorant/close minded. Instead of looking at the appearance of person, you should be concentrating on the things about yourself that you can improve rather than who has what piercing, if someone is skinny or overweight, or has a low cut shirt on.

You can opt to be as old-fashioned as you want, but remember this is 2007 and things are ever-changing and there is nothing you can do to stop that.

People put too much time into judging another's appearance and it's disgusting. My boyfriend had long hair for awhile and was criticized daily for it. The way a person looks, isn't a risk to your own health or well being, so let it go.

And while some might disagree with piercings for health purposes... I'd stop to think about your own lifestyles first. If you tan, smoke, drink, drink caffeinated beverages, worry about that before pointing out another person's piercing.

And isntead of grossing out at the "rush" some people get from piercings, think about what gives you a rush? Is it driving a motorcycle? Rock climbing? A piercing won't kill you, but a motorcycle accident can and will.

Sep 6, 2007 12:11:00 PM  
Anonymous Anorexic Inc said...

Well. I have 16 earring, my nose, my stomach, and two tounge rings.

later this week will hopefully be getting snake bites.. so that will be 22 peircings all up. and have no intention of stopping yet .

i think there the best invention ever :)

But im sure i wont go as crazy as that picture..

Sep 17, 2007 7:02:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So I just got my first cartilage piercing done two days ago. Im 15 and the only other piercings I have are my first and second holes on my ear lobe. I don't plan on getting anything else done, I'm not much of a pain person, but if someone else wants to, its not effecting me. Piercings are a persons choice and they don't hurt anyone(well maybe themselves). What I have a problem with is people smoking in a public place! Its gross and makes other people stink. So the reason I'm posting this is because two days later my cartilage is all red and hurts like crazy. Should I take it out or leave it in? Just so you know if it gets infected, my mom is taking it upon herself to remove the earring.

Sep 17, 2007 9:53:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have my inner daith pierced, My tragus pierced and my lobe on each side pierced - and i love them :)

I think its each to their own, I know some people who look at piercings and say "they make me feel ill!"

or people who look at piercings and say "wow, that looks good!"

I disagree with people getting tattoos at a very young age but then again, who am I to say they will regret it?

I do not like tunnels (big holes in people lobes) just for the reason that they smell alot! and taken to extreme, they will not be able to close up.

I think that aslong as the person has done the research on the piercing, looked at the long term affects (eg, will your body reject the piercing and you will be left with a horrile scar?) and know how to properly look after it and its not an impulse decision - then great!

Sep 20, 2007 6:25:00 AM  
Anonymous sam said...

im 16 and have 2 lobe peircings in each ear, a tragus piercing(the litte flappy looking thing in your ear), a cartiledge and a belly button piercing. i also have a tattoo on my foot. now i dont mean to sound like a young teenager who "knows it all" but im not a slut, i dont drink, i dont smoke, i dont do drugs or any of that stuff im just a normal teenage girl. i would just like to say that just because someone chooses to get something pierced doesnt make them a rebel, a druggie, a slut or any of the other things you older people seem to want to label them with. i didnt get any of my peircing for any other reason than i liked them and i thought they looked nice. you may not agree with me but thats no reason to go and say that any piercing is stupid and ugly. YOUR JUST BEING CLOSED MINDED!!!!

Sep 21, 2007 10:17:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a 16 year old female. I am a junior and have maintained a 4.0 gpa since the 6th grade. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, and my crufew is 9 pm. I do have a boyfriend, but I don't sleep around and I go to church on Saturdays. I work at a retirement home after swim team practice. I have 3 lobe piercings in each ear, one cartilage, a tongue ring and a nose ring. I guess for me the worst part of having piercings, is the stereotyping. I didn't do it for anybody but me. I love them and will keep them forever. I have a white nose ring and a clear tongue ring for when I work, and all piercings in the ears come out. Piercings dont dictate what you are. You do.

Sep 30, 2007 4:16:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 21 years old and work as a scretary with the public on a day to day basis. I began getting piercings of all sorts (i.e. lip, naval, ears) when I was 14. I removed my naval & lip when I was 16. As for the ears I continued on and to this date I have strategically placed piercings in both ears. Both sides are symmetrical, I have an industerial on both (a large bar that runs from mid way to the top by the head - so there are two holes in one piercings on the same ear). I have asked one of the supervisors out of curiousity before what they thought of my ears and they said it was perfectly fine and they did not see a problem with my ears as I had them so placed in the order I did even though I have over 9 holes in each ear with only the one hole in each that is your typical conventional piercing. The rest are the so called "abnormal" piercings. In addition to my piercings I have now I also have 13 tattoos, with approx. 8-9 that are visible on many occasions but are not large and are faminine/not obscure. My place of employment for those interested is a policy based/driven agency and I have never gone outside of those guidelines with my appearance.

On the other hand I can agree with some of people there is a line some have crossed where it is too much clutter and not enough thought when getting an excessive amount of body art in general of any sort. Placement should be taken into consideration whenever anyone is going to get something done to their body. Even though the scaring will not be as horrible as some have mentioned above (from personal experience! - not just my own I have been friends with piercers also and know scar tissue does decrease overtime as long as you leave it alone).

I read above also above nipple piercings, there has only been two documented cases in the medical field where bad infections took place that led to severe cases... I am sure you can take this on ward with your imaginations.

Body art is all personal perference. My mother, grandmother, they both do not like it, however they grew to accept it once they realized I was not going growing out of it. It is part of society today and has been for the past 10 years+. Just hopefully people will become more responsible with their choices regarding it and others will become more accepting for those in that culture, afterall we all do have to live together in this place with walls that separate us... yet we all still breath the same air.

Oct 2, 2007 12:47:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Get over yourselves! Piercings and tattoos are AWESOME! I am a 35 year old mother of four who has ears and nose piercings and several tattoos. They aren't "in your face" or obnoxious, but they are part of who I am. My children, whom two of also have pierced ears, ask about them and I tell them that it is a personal choice. Perhaps some folks can't stand that others of us out there aren't afraid to make our own decisions!

Oct 3, 2007 11:45:00 PM  
Anonymous your future leader said...

i love all the old timer ignorance on this page, its a good laugh that people won't budge out of their normalcy. learn to accept the new. because the future is going to be full of it.

Oct 17, 2007 11:29:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have my ears done three times..on each side..and a cartilage piercing... it took FOREVER to heal... I got it done the first time when I was in..5th grade... had to take it out because it ot so bad..went back a year later and got it repierced... and it healed maybe a year after that... well,fully. I have a vertical labret I just got done a week ago.. it doesnt make people look trashy, I wouldnt want a face full of piercings... but a few are fine.

Oct 18, 2007 7:33:00 AM  
Anonymous claramay said...

people have said some really good points on here and made me think about my peicings...to me i love peircings i think they are amazing and i do them for me and only me. i really want to get the industrial done (the bar in your cartilage) and my mom doesnt think i should get it done until i know that it's not bad for your ear or anything so is there anything that i need to know about this piercing?? if anybody has it done maybe you could tell me your experiance? please! and thank you :D

Nov 5, 2007 11:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have one tattoo, and five piercings i dont think that everyone gets body art for attention. I got my tattoo when i turned eighteen in memory of my grandfather. I love art and I drew my own tattoo so i think its a good way to keep people you love with you and show yourself. I plan on getting six more that are all my own creations and all very religous and personal. I think people to often jugde others by their apperance rather than getting to know them. I dress in old navy, aeropastle, and prepy clothes and i come from a very small town and a well off family, but to often people see the tattoo and piercings and dont give me the chance. If we all stop judging each other what we have on our bodies wouldnt matter.

Nov 15, 2007 10:30:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The Bible is pretty plain about body mutilation and taking things (anything) to excess being sins. I wonder how you will explain some of these things to God when the time comes?

Nov 19, 2007 11:18:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The Bible? Give me a break. I'm not sure I would categorize piercings as mutilation anyway. Boy don't we all love to take things too literally and to the far extreme. Such closed minded thinking. Mind you, my comments come from a religious person with no piercings or tattoos, just a rare open mind and the acknowledgement that things like murder, rape and pedophilia are sins much more worthy of our attention than insignificant piercings. Let people be who they are and try to reserve your judgment unless you are perfect.

Nov 19, 2007 11:51:00 PM  
Blogger mamamelanie said...

CRASH said...

I agree with your mother . . . piercings (especially things other than ear lobes) DO make girls look cheap. What ever happened to the "totally natural" look?! Piercings & tattoos do make girls look slutty. Here's one guy who appreciates women "just the way God made 'em"!

5/25/2006 3:23 PM


dear CRASH: as important as you may think your opinion is, it's only that. your opinion. you say that girls with piercings look cheap, but i have to disagree. i have a monroe, venoms, and stretched ears with another set on my lobes, and i make it all look very classy. i wear conservative clothing and i'm a loving mother, rarely to be seen without my [adorable] son. it's true, there are some piercings that look trashy, but not all of them. it's totally rude to state that EVERY girl with piercings are cheap and slutty. also, i have a tattoo on my upper back of 3 calla lilies, beautifully done. my husband (who is totally natural) loves every body mod that i have. if you like your girls natural, that's fine, but don't insult the women that love mods. it's jewelry, just like a necklace or a bracelet or a ring.

Anonymous said...

The Bible is pretty plain about body mutilation and taking things (anything) to excess being sins. I wonder how you will explain some of these things to God when the time comes?

11/19/2007 11:18 PM


dear anonymous: god? if he existed.

Nov 23, 2007 7:01:00 PM  
Anonymous Ashley said...

i have a total of 10 peircings, i guess thats not alot.
i have my tounge done thats never got infected before and i got that when i was 12.
i got my ears done when i was only 7 months old.
i got my ears done again in grade 8 and one more in grade 9.
when i hit grade ten all the peircings where consitered "hot" so i went and got my tragus done. it bleed when ever i touched it.
i went back to the peircer and told him and he said it was normal for it in the first few months.
so i then got my daith done. i loved it so much i got it done on the other side.
i also have a little tattoo to honour my grandfather.

Nov 26, 2007 2:39:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have 2 tattoos and also have 4 ear piercings. Once before I had my eye brow pierced. I do not do these things for anyone but myself. I love the look of my tattoos and piercings. I do not flaunt it and I do not show it off to anyone. I am open minded and believe that everyone has a choice in what they do and decide to do with their body and that no one should sit in judgement because of what someone chooses to do with their own body.

Nov 27, 2007 3:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Someone wanting a piercing should make sure that they do their homework first. They should make sure the studio they're planning on having their peircing done at, are experienced in their craft & scores well on their health inspections. They should also should be willing to answer any questions or concerns you should have. As far as the traditional earlobe piercings go; nothing ever gets said about the many large department stores using the same piercing gun over & over again. These dept. stores don't have an autoclave,(sterilizer). All they do is wipe it with alcohol & a cotton ball, (which doesn't sterilize). I have seen a trend in recent years of these places using disposable guns,(which is great). The only problem is, I've seen them wipe down the disposable one & use it again on someone else,(@ Walmart). Also the jewelry,(although brand new) should be sterile too. In a professoinal tattoo/ piercing studio all needles are new & sterile. They are used once & disposed of in a sharps,(biohazard) container. Twelve years ago I read that the CDC said that the third leading cause of the spread of Hepititis B was from reusing piercing guns. Most places that use these guns are large corps. with lots of money & lobby power. No wonder they can keep poking holes in ears without having to be regulated like the small tattoo business owners. Like I said; do your homework.

Nov 29, 2007 1:31:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When your old and your skin is sagging, tattoos and piercings are going to sag too. If tattoos & piercings are your biggest regret in life, you've done way better than the rest of us. I would say that the aged person with the tattoos & piercings,(or scars from piercings) wouldn't have regrets; but little reminders of where they've been and what they've done in their life. Or even perhaps it reminds them of their youth, and brings a smile to their face. There are many Holacaust survivors that could have taken advantage of modern medicine and have their #'s that were tattooed on them by the Nazis while they were in concentration camps. To most of us, you would think they wouldn't want a reminder of something so horrible. So, whether a good or bad memory, by choice or not people have have their reasons for wanting to hang on to little reminders. People should start living & worring about their own lives, instead of hating the choices other people make in their own lives.

Nov 29, 2007 2:59:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sorry, left out the word "removed" in the above comment. It should have read; "There are many Holacaust survivors that could have taken advantage of modern medicine and have their #'s that were tattooed on them by the Nazis while they were in concentration camps removed."

Nov 29, 2007 3:03:00 PM  
Anonymous ashley said...

I just got 2 cartilage piercings in my left ear at the same time, and i'm only thirteen. i don't think it hurt at all, and i am not having much trouble woth it, altough it is a little red. =]

Dec 6, 2007 10:36:00 PM  
Anonymous rebecca said...

I personally have to disagree with everyone who says piercings are pointless. I have my piercings (nostril, ears, septum, and belly button) because I wanted them. They did me no good in my family - my mother was horror struck every time - or in my social circle - young men and women who most people would mindlessly sterotype as "preppy." I did them for me. Unlike tattoos, piercings come out, so I in no way barred myself from holding a tradutional job - I'm currently a bank teller, in case you were wondering.

I don't claim to be "non-conformist" like someone said. I'm just me, and the difference with people who do opt for piercings and tattoos is that most of the time it's not about attention, it's about personal expression. We're no more or less followers than the hoards of American Eagle clad college girls and guys out there. Today, it's impossible to be an individual, thus EVERYONE is a follower of something. I believe there is an extreme that people go to, but I am not someone to crucify someone else for their choices. Thank you, "Anonymous" for being open minded and knowing that everyone should worry about themselves and not judge others (probably to just make themselves more secure) and "mamamelanie" for reminding everyone that body mods can be beautiful and classy too.

The fact is that piercings and tattoos are becoming more mainstream and it's scary to the more traditional people. Body mods isn't an underground deal anymore, and people are going to learn to accept it, or simply be disgruntled over it. But hey, that's THEIR problem!

Dec 7, 2007 9:47:00 AM  
Anonymous Anti-Anti-Body Art said...

I am 19 years old and have 6 piercings, one each in my nose and lip, the rest in my ears. I also have 5 tattoos, and I just want to make a comment to all the anti-body art people. Just because someone has piercings or tattoos, DOES NOT mean that they are doing it for everybody else or to fit in, or to stand out for that matter. They're becoming the norm these days, but I never did it for anyone else but myself. Some people do it to fit in or whatever, but that's their business, and it's no one's right to judge them. (anyone ever heard the phrase "Only God can judge me"??) I never regretted any of my piercings or tattoos, and I never will. What's so bad about being the wrinkly old lady in the nursing home with all the tattoos? If anything, it'll give the nurses something to talk about! And just what it is about a tattooed girl that looks slutty? Once again, who are you to judge? You've probably only met the slutty ones. Jerk.

Dec 8, 2007 5:40:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have plenty of piercings and tattoos, and if you don't like it, DON'T LOOK AT ME! It's that easy. If you're someone who is basically forced to look at someone with body art (nurse, doctor, whatever) that you disapprove of then that's your problem. who are you to judge anyways? I'm sure you've done plenty more sinful things in your life than modify your body to your liking, as we body art lovers have.

Dec 8, 2007 5:45:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I only have two holes, one in each earlobe. I have one ear that gets infected everytime I put my serated diamond earrings in. This time, I can feel a little hard ball in my ear but cannot get it to drain. I'm thinking maybe it is just skin and I am not quite sure what to do. I really want to wear earrings again Please help!

Dec 13, 2007 11:55:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 23 and have had my fair share of piercings, 9 all together, and only 4 remain. I had everything from ears to tongue to nipples pierced, don't get me wrong i loved them and took very good care of them. but even with all the precautions i took, my right nipple had gotten infected, about a 1 1/2 later, an abscess after finding this lump the first thought to mind was to panic thinking the worst, after months of medication, pain and worry finally the only option was surgery. although i find myself in regret for piercing them i also miss them its weird...but its been almost a year since my surgery the scar is starting to fade, yet i am still in pain and they still haven't closed up fully causing more problems then you would think. i am not saying all piercings are bad, but just take your time to really think of what the consequences could be...

Dec 13, 2007 11:45:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Saying that someone who gets pierced is trashy is as stupid as saying that someone who doesn't is a snob.

As for people who like ear piercings because it looks more natural... do you realize how illogical that is? You just like it because it's been mainstream for about 100 years tops. I believe that, in about 50 years, nose, eyebrow, tongue, lip and navel piercings will be just as "natural", like you say, as ears are today. And by then, no one will listen to you anymore.

I myself only have my ears done and a small tattoo, but I find most body modifications quite beautiful. As for the ones I don't like (which are quite rare.... I really couldn't care less. I think Crocs (the shoes) are ugly as hell, but you don't see me getting all outraged in online discussion groups.

Gosh.

Dec 14, 2007 2:27:00 PM  
Anonymous Klara said...

"The Bible is pretty plain about body mutilation and taking things (anything) to excess being sins. I wonder how you will explain some of these things to God when the time comes?"

i just have one thing to say to that whoever said it...ever think of if god made us this way that we like peircings? i think god made me just the way he wanted and i love pericing they are awesome. it's not body mutilation it's a form of art that each individual can have it's thier body. yes there is a thin line of whats wrong and whats right but god made me who i am..and i'm gonna have peircings!

so anyways i just got my belly button peirced and i love it to death. me and my friend did it together, mine is doing great but hers is getting infected quite a lot. is there people who have some peiced belly button experiance that can help what to do with infections? thanks : )

Dec 19, 2007 8:15:00 PM  
Anonymous Geli! said...

I'm a 19 year old female. I work at a very nice 4 star corporate resort hotel. I currently have two piercings in each ear lobe. Neither of which I regret! I got my first piercing to rebel against my parent's. They had kicked me out so I was going to do the one thing they never allowed. Immediately I fell in love with my piercings! They were simple and could be dressed up or down. Since then I proceeded to get a second lobe piercing. I have however always longed to get my eyebrow, nose, and tongue pierced. Its been a dream of mine for ages. Unfortunately for me I fell in love with a guy who found piercings other than ear, nose, tongue, or belly button to be very trashy along with tattoos on women. I however find belly button piercings to be trashy so it kind of limits me! I like my two piercings now and have found many ways to wear them that allow me to be professional without having to take out my piercings. I am also due for another piercing in the next few weeks. Most likely it will be another ear piercing or the tongue. I had certain doubts about the sanitary view of a tongue piercing until reading this article. Piercings can be trashy if over done or put in places that should not be exposed. I think piercings can be very nice if done correctly however. I personally love piercings but I love my fiance more so I keep the number down low. I guess my main point on this is that really the view of the piercing depends on how it is used. However I also have a question. I have had my second lobe piercings for eight weeks now. I had then done week before thanksgiving. I ended up having the left lobe get infected and I took the one earring out for overnight to care for the infection. I put the earring back in the next morning and had to re-pierce the back of it. Now for some reason seven weeks later it still is scabbing and hurts when i remove earrings and put them in just like when I first got them. I know its not infected now because I clean them three times a day even still and sterilize earrings every day. But they have yet to close up!!!! why? this is the only bad problem I've ever had with a piercing.

Jan 3, 2008 8:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i love peircing thats all i have to say!
well to answer the question to the person who left their comment before mine, i have had many peircings and have had lots of experiance..first of all, it is important to know what to clean the piercng with. many things can be harmful to the piercing or harsh and could dry out your skin cause it to not heal well. you should not be taking out the earing because it needs to heal. you could maybe take it out once a week and clean the earings in achool but other then that just cleaning the piercing with salt water twice a day. warm salt soaks a couple minutes long need to be done daily and hopefully you will see has good healing results soon.

Jan 3, 2008 11:38:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have tons of piercings... Er, seven, I've got snake bites, septum, tongue, eyebrow and one cartlidge in my ear. Oh and six tattoos. I'm a 19 year old girl and I feel that even though the tats are permanant they're part of me and I don't regret anything. I only looked this up to see about infections... My septum is infected it was fine one night and the next day there was pus coming out of it. I've had this piercing for over five months and I check it every day to make sure the ring isn't coated with anything or the hole hasn't reopened.

It truly confused me that in one night it accumulated enough pus that it just poured out when I went to change rings. I've cleaned it with alcohol and I've stuffed anti-biotic ointment in it, but I'm not willing to lose it. So far it's gotten better.

Jan 5, 2008 8:59:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It seems that everyone here has their very own (strong!) opinion - and that's great!

I have 5 piercings in my ears (3 lobes, 1 on the left and 2 on the rihgt, and my right tragus and my right rim/cartilage) and I'm getting my anti-tragus done tomorrow :D I'm a bit scared cos it feels like it's gunna hurt! Bit the reason I am doing it, is because I WANT TO. I only know 1 other person who has this piercing in my circle of friends and I'm not copying her at all - seeing as she's taken it out now!

I always said to myself that I would nto get addicted to piercings...I think after my anti-tragus I will call it a day unless I feel like getting something else done later in life.

I love giving blood. Although I've only done it twice, I feel great when I've done it and by getting piercings all the time this means I cannot give blood for 12 months after. So I'm leaving the piercings for at least a year if not forever after tomorrow.

My mum HATES tattoos! My cousins all have at least one and I seriously considered having one...but I can be fairly fickle - 1 week I like something, the next I hate it - so naturally a tattoo is too permanent for me. Also, I respect my mum and her likes and dislikes. I want her to be proud of me and I know she would be seriously hacked off if I came home with a tattoo lol. Don't get me wrong - if I really loved something, I wouldn't let anyone get in my way; but I will have seriously thought it over before hand. My mum said she was ok with ear piercings so I don't feel too bad about that!

Also, another reason I like piercings - if after a couple of years you decide you don't like them - you can take them out! Simple bog-standard piercings only leave a tiny hole if they don't heal over - big deal! Tattoos are different - you pretty much got them for life, and I admire and respect those who are happy to live with them. I would never get one myself, but that's not to say I don't think anyone else should have one. Each to their own is my motto.

As for the whole "normal-through-the-lobes-piercing"...duh! A bit of metal shoved through ya ear is a bit of metal shoved through ya ear. Period! Dosn't matter where it is - it's there. So why not go with something a little more unusual, not "abnormal"...

I think some people can carry off piercings and tattoos better than others. Some people you see these days with minging jewellery shoved through their skin in random places aint so cool - but in the right places on the right people, they can look really pretty! My housemate has the back of her neck pierced - at first I wondered why?? But it actually looks really nice! Why get something done you can't see, you ask? Sometimes, it's just the thought of knowing it's there, almost like your little secret that makes it fun!

I would never get anything done of it were the latest trend! I first had my ear lobes pierced when I was 13 - I'm now 20 and only had my rim/cartilage done 3 days ago! I managed to avoid getting it done when everyone else did a few years ago in the hype - I waited untill I really actually wanted it done and I like it better for that reason. I live with 3 other people my age, all of whom have their lips pierced - I'm the only one who hasn't! By NOT having a piercing that, a few years ago (and still today) was regarded highly rebellious, makes ME the different one! But we are all different and that is what makes us beautiful :)

To those who claim that piercings and tattoos make people look ugly, I empathise, but do not necissarily agree. Yes, the person in the picture looks shocking, but Indian women who have their noses pierced look great and it's a part of their culture. I don't agree with parents getting their child's ears (or anything else!) pierced at such a young age or without their consent. Part of getting a piercing is making the decision yourself. It's part of the thrill.

As for those who have questioned our morals in the eyes of God, 3 things: First - God gave us free will, so we can choose whether we want to do things like this. Second - it's not destruction if it's not permanent :) and thirdly, as some others have pointed out - only God may judge us - so leave it to him. Aint got nothing to do with you.

I appreciate that some people will have been raised with different social customs - what they consider 'normal' or 'beautiful' can vary drastically to others. But this is a changing world. We are seeing many amazing things happen which we will have to accept. Like, my nan hated computers - thought they were a waste of time. All new technology can be intimidating for older people. But - it's the way the world is going - so we just have to accept it and move on. Moaning about it isn't going to get you anywhere.

I would suggest to all those who take pleasure in criticising other's body art to instead focus on who they are as a person. Don't be so negative! I'm sure that there are things about you which other people don't like, and you never hear about them because most people have the manners to keep their hurtful opinions to themselves.

Infected piercings can look nasty though! Your best bet, if you think/you have an infection is to go back to your piercer and talk to them about it. A good piercer will know an infection when they see one, and although they arn't doctors, they may refer you tyo one or give you some advice on how to sort it out.

As people have already said - get it done professionally in a well respected/known establishment. I had my first lobes done in Claires, and they turned out fine, but all my others I got done elsewhere with a niiice biiig needle :D

As for those asking about pain...yah they hurt! I mean, you're getting something shoved through your skin, right? But seriously, it only lasts like a second or two. After that, it will burn for a while and only really noticeably hurt of you knock it. Part of the experience is feeling the pain in my opinion. But you get a funky new addition to your look to show for it!

I think in extreme cases, too many piercings can ruin a look. Too many cooks spoil the broth. I think piercings and tattoos should compliment your natural beauty. Don't get too carried away! Sometimes I look at people with lots of tats/piercings and think, "man, what's that gunna look like in 20 or so years?" but it's not for me to worry about. So chill. Lets face it - at the rate peeps are going nowadays - ALL little old ladies and little old men (AKA...us!!) are going to have saggy tats and droopy piercings - it will be normal by then! I think what some people make the mistake of doing is, imagining an "offensive" person when they are older, mixing in with the elderly of today. Won't be the same in 50 years!

At the end of the day - they are our bodies. I finmd it funny though, that my cousin who is covered in tats refuses to let her little girl have her ears pierced! (She also isn't allowed a boyfriend or to play in the dirt...she's 2...!)I think it's a parent thing. I know if I had a kid, I wouldn't really want them punching holes in something I created; but at the end of the day your body is just that. YOUR body and you should be able to do what you like with it and not be discriminated against.

You can read many testimonials on this page - of old and young respectable, loving people who all share one thing in common - individuality!

I'm a student (I can see you rolling youe eyes!) I study psychology and I have extremely strong morals (hence my giving-blood dilemma). I feel bad if I talk about people behind their backs - seriosuly. I consider myself a nice person. I am also a Christian. I live my life as God intended - and that isn't affected by all the piercings I have - I am still the same person; they do not affect my moral or social standing.

I merely see piercings and tattoos just like normal jewellery. I think we should have the right to decorate wherever we want, just as we would our fingers with rings, our wrists with bracelets and our necks with necklaces.

To parents who try to convince rebellious kids otherwise - don't make a fuss! That will only encourage them! And then what might happen, eh?

Let people enjoy their freedom! It's nice that we live in a world where we can express our individuality! Don't spoil it for those who dare to step out and be who they are! :D

Jan 7, 2008 9:44:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 15 years old and have ten piercings. Four in each earlobe, and one cartilege (typo) in each ear. My mother used to always complain about me having "too many piercings" when they are only in my ears. I would always have to remind her that she should at least be happy that I don't have some blinding thing on my face or somewhere "unappropriate". I highly support piercings and tattoos, althought alot of people do not. I don't think that we should have to defend something we believe in. If people don't like the fact that i have so many ear piercings, then so be it. They can't control what I do to my body, so I'm not worried about they're opinions.

To me, it's not fair to them if you're defending yourself and your piercings. But, also vice versa.

Everyone has their own opinions. I don't think we should fight them, but just accept them and move on.

No use fighting if no one is capable of winning. :)

Jan 16, 2008 8:55:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

An addition to that last comment i posted, everyones opininons always clash and no one can do anything about it. So who are we to try and change it?

If people want to think that tattoos and piercings are trashy and a sin, then let them. There's no way we can change their mind, so all we can do is accept their opinions and get on with life.

Jan 16, 2008 9:28:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow that be lots of peircing but i have my ears and belly buttin pierced and i think that would be painful but it might not be to the dude in the pic!?!

Jan 22, 2008 9:51:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Too many piercings can make people look at you funny. It's true. I have two piercings in each earlobe, am going for two more in each ear and a belly button piercing soon (not at the same time, talk about painful!), and people look at me funny sometimes. And I only have four holes. Granted, the people who think so many piercings are weird are usually older, like around my mom's age, but the point is, someone is always going to look at you like you're different, no matter how many piercings you have. Funny thing. Since my parents are divorced, and my dad lives in Texas and my mom and I live in New York, I have to do the whole "Did you ask your Mom/Dad" thing over and over. My dad and his wife belong to one of those churches where they think everything's a sin, and everyone who doesn't believe in God is going to Hell, and he still told me that if I wanted to get pierced, I had to know that it might affect the jobs I get offered when I'm older, and people's view of me. Piercings, compared to other things you can do to your body (i.e. drugs/self-mutilation etc.), aren't so bad when you think about it. They don't ruin your life.

If you decide you don't want them anymore, you can take them out.

Jan 24, 2008 9:42:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i just got my second hole pierced(lobe)...one ear is more bothersome than the other and its swollen, red, and hurting. what should i do?

Jan 27, 2008 9:54:00 AM  
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Jan 30, 2008 10:23:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well I hope someone has some insight to my problem. I got my belly button pierced when I was 18. I am now 24 and when I look back and think about it, all of my stomach problems started when at the age of 18. I tend to get extremely excruciating pain right along the middle on my stomach; from one side of my stomach to the other right across by belly button. I don't get this pain too often but it has gotten worse and worse over the years. Has anyone ever heard of a belly button piercing doing this to a person? If not, has anyone ever heard of or know any information about the problem that I am having...

Jan 30, 2008 10:29:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a 22 year old PERSONAL BANKER who currently has 9 piercings, soon to be 10 on Tuesday and 11 next Friday. I have 4 in each lobe of my ears and a left tragus piercing. I am going to be getting my right tragus done, as well as a surface nape piercing. I work in a very professional environment and have never been judged because of my piercings by customers (the majority are older people) or co-workers. In fact, my boss has at least 5 piercings along with at least 3 tattoos. We know when it is appropriate/necessary to cover these in order to be within bank guidelines. Piercings should not be considered intimidating or gross or dirty. The majority of people who have piercings/tattoos don't do them for anyone but themselves. My parents are going to freak out over the 11th piercing I'm going to get, but honestly, it's not about what they think, it about making myself happy. There are so many things that people can do to themselves that are worse than tattoos/piercings. It may sound strange, but for me, piercings are a release. For that time, you have a physical pain that can be very beneficial to healing an emotional pain or problem and it can even make you forget about the things in your life that are going wrong. It gives you a release from stress and anxiety. It bothers me that so many people are judging people based on their outward appearance rather than getting to know them and then deciding if this is a person you want to associate with. Maybe if people weren't so quick to judge people who look or act differently, we wouldn't have as many issues like random violence and hatred.

Feb 24, 2008 12:57:00 AM  
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Feb 29, 2008 9:56:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

eww i wouldnt put myself through that pain

Mar 4, 2008 8:35:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just got my tragus piercings front cartilage.... SORE is not the word enough for explaination but I lOVE IT .... REALLY CUTE lots of compliments :) not swollen at all praying it does not become infected :) although my best friend just had to get her's cut out because it was swollen LITERALLY INTO HER EAR

Mar 12, 2008 3:43:00 AM  
Anonymous SynthVicious said...

I believe piercings are a great form of expression.
I am 17 years old, I have My septum (Middle of my nose),Tongue,Tongue Web(Under my tongue),My Bridge(located on the nose..between the eyes)Labret,Right side of my lip,Both Nostrils,Tragus,Both my ears are spaced to a double zero, And one cartilage piercing on my right ear at the top.
Very soon im going to be getting Nipples (2 in each) and my cheeks.
I think the appearance is something that can be played with, and you should be able to do anything you want with YOUR body.
i dont believe that piercings are body mutilation...
because in modern society piercings and tattoos are more socially acceptable then years and years ago.
And its only going to get more accepted as time goes on,
there will always be people who think that piercings are wrong.
but i dont believe they make a statement about the type of person you are.
I guess i would be considered a freak to some... I have a blue tri-hawk, face full of piercings, and i make all my own clothes...
but i also do funraisers for food banks every month, attend protests to promote change in the world, have my own place, am financially stable, I dont drink or do drugs as i believe it toxify's the body.and your body should be YOUR temple. Im attending college in september..And im not getting any support from the government.
Therefore i believe to never judge a book by its cover.

Mar 13, 2008 8:43:00 PM  
Blogger sonya said...

The last comment was beautiful. More people should be living their life like yours, even if they don't have any piercings! I believe that most of the negative comments about body art/mod is because of the "negative" people getting them. Just like anything else (as far as a style) their are far too many "trendies" out there that do it because its cool or to get attention. They are the ones to make body art/mod not acceptable.

For the ones out there who think, "What are they going to look like when your old!" If your getting it done for the RIGHT reasons then those who have tattoos and piercings will think they are as beautiful as when they first got them.

I have a tattoo running across my chest, I get that question all the time. I tell them, "I would much rather have an old saggy tattoo to match my old saggy chest!"

I got it done when I was 18 I am 26 now and still.
love it!

No body should judge anybody at any time about anything!!!!!!!!!!!

Mar 14, 2008 12:53:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Lisa Moore said...
I always find it amazing that those who proclaim that they are individuals and non-conformists are really conforming to the most desperate extreme. They who pierce to the extreme will be the first to condemn "trendy" people. Are they that unintelligent to see that it is they who are followers?"

Congratulations, very cheap shot. Not all of us are unintelligent. I get what I want pierced for ME no one else, and not to fit in.

Mar 16, 2008 3:09:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 18 and attending college with the hopes of pursuing a law degree. I currently have 10 piercings, all of which involved no one elses imput (withholding the lobe piercings I got done as an infant which are crooked because I "moved" according to my mother). I have 2 lobe piercings in each ear, a helix piercing in the right ear as well as an industrial in the right ear. I also have 3 piercings in my navel making a triangle. None of my piercings are visible, including my lobes which my hair constantly covers.

As for the navel being a "trendy" piercing, I got my first hole as an incentive to get up to a healthy weight. As a child I had an abnormally fast metabolism causing me to be very underweight. When I was in 9th grade I set a goal to gain enough weight to get my belly button pierced. My mother agreed to this because she was tired of me being a "stick". Somehow I gained like 2 pounds, enough to get the piercing and i've never looked back. I still get called a stick but now i'm at a healthy weight yay! I certainly cannot vouch for every modified person but I can say with certainty that all ten of my piercings are special to ME.

Also, for the nay-sayers, I am not a slut, nor a hippie. I am relatively conservative and consider myself a modified Republican.

Mar 17, 2008 1:21:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

iM 13 YEARz yOUNG N iG0T MAH N0SE PiERCED 2 WEEKS AG0 N N0W i HAVE A BiG ASS KEL0iD i JUST WANNA KN0W H0W T0 TAKE iT 0FF!!!=D

Mar 19, 2008 6:33:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^^^HElP^^^^^^

Mar 19, 2008 6:35:00 PM  
Anonymous Jessica said...

I think the people who post on here judgemental comments and use harsh name-calling towards people who decide to pierce or tattoo their bodies are ridiculous. I am sure that people who know you have a few things that they could call stupid that you do in your life. Portraying a girl as a slut just because she has a piercing or tattoo is just another way for these people to put harsh labels on women, even though it has nothing to do with her sexuality. First of all, if your going to judge others try to come up with something more intelligent than stupid and slutty, you sound childish. Second of all, it is called freedom of choice! Leave people alone to make their own choices!

Mar 19, 2008 10:31:00 PM  
OpenID Dvlred720 said...

So Ive been sitting here reading these posts and have been wondering...are these people for real?...Is it really necessary to think that people go out and do things to their owns bodies to "fit-it" and is it REALLY necessary to call girls who are different "slutty" and "cheap"?


I am 18 years old with 9 ear piercings, 1 navel and 1 nose piecing 1 tattoo and am hoping to get more of both. I dont do it because I want to fit in and look cool, I dont it because well honestly I get bored with the way i look. Alot of my more recent piercing also hold great memories behind them and tend to be like stamps on a passport. Ive gotten more piercings because what most people say, their not permenant and everytime I come home with a new one and my dad asks why I tell him that and hes says its true and goes on his way. My attitude on tattoos is that theyre really only necessary if they have a meaning. Im not gonna go out and criticize people that dont think this way btu its the only reason I got mine; in memory of a dog i had since i was 8. So those of you who really think that people are going out to get these things done so they look "cool" or 'fit-in', have your own opinion but maybe you should look deeper then that.

Mar 23, 2008 2:39:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well i'm 15 and have my lip, tongue and nose pierced along with gauged ears and scaffolding (industrial bars) in each ear all with the consent of my parents. I hope to get tattoos when i am old enough, two representing my parents and others that are meaningful. I'm not doing this to fit in or to be 'non-conformist' (if theres such a thing these days) I simply enjoy having them done, like the way they look and what they represent to me. I understand why some people would be against having them done themselves however what i don't and will never understand is people who feel compelled to judge others based on a personal preferance that doesn't affect them. Piercings don't affect the way a person behaves or how they treat you so why does it affect how you treat them?? I have found all of these comments extremely useful and I hope mine can be of some use to people!

Mar 25, 2008 4:28:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"I agree with your mother . . . piercings (especially things other than ear lobes) DO make girls look cheap. What ever happened to the "totally natural" look?! Piercings & tattoos do make girls look slutty. Here's one guy who appreciates women "just the way God made 'em"!"


I have five piercings. Two in each of my ear lobes and one in my cartilage.
I plan on getting a few more piercings as well. I want a few more in my ears, a stud in my nose and a navel piercing. I also have a tattoo on my left foot, going up my leg a bit. It's of flowers and is black and grey. Yet again, I plan on getting more. All of the tattoos I want will be done in places that will not be visible all day. Ear piercings and nose studs, and any piercing not visible, are not "slutty." A nose stud is cute, and ear piercings can be hidden by hair. If you do these things in respectful ways, then they can add to your natural beauty and show people who you are.

Mar 25, 2008 11:42:00 AM  
OpenID dvlred720 said...

Ahmen! ^^

Mar 25, 2008 9:59:00 PM  
Anonymous Casey said...

I'm 18 years old and have 23 piercings including 17 in my ears, my septum(the middle piece of the nose), my monroe(upper lip), my tongue, both nipples, and my belly button. I've even had my clit done. I see no problem with expressing yourself through piercings or even guaging those piercings. I understand some piercings are a little shocking, but its not uncommon to see them anymore. dont say that 'you're so beautiful without them though.' its not what we want to hear. we've pierced ourselves because we wanted to, and when people say these things, personally i think a little less of them as people. its not what matters on the outside, what matters is on the inside

Mar 25, 2008 10:34:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As for all the people asking about what to do with infections the best thing is a boiling water and salt solution app;iedwith cotton wool or maybe an alcohol free anisceptic (sp?). Those in the mouth ag tongue/lip can be treated with an alcohol free mouth wash after eating. I hope that helps
xox

Mar 26, 2008 3:31:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that if a person disagrees with piercings due to the many health implications that they can undoubtably cause then fair enough but what irritates me is when people make assumptions about your personality based on your piercings and dress sense. I have 3 facial piercings along with quite a bit of work on my ear (including gauging) and dress fairly 'non - conformist' such as wearing baggy jeans and skate shoes. However despite this I am an A* student, follow a strict vegetarian diet and unlike many girls follow the Straight Edge lifestyle which means no alcohol, drugs, tobacco or casual sex. So if anyone thinks that my piercings make me 'slutty' then they can think again!! I enjoy having a way to express myself; piercings may be becoming more and more acceptable and well known however I still get funny looks from children and adulta alike!! A tongue piercing doesnt make you a slut, a lip piercing doesnt mean you drink, smoke or do drugs and they certainly don't indicate school drop outs. My parents say that my piercings give me a 'certain image' well thats only because people like them hold onto these ridiulous stereotypes that only serve to make a beautiful form of self expression more and more misunderstood!!

Mar 27, 2008 8:34:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 23 and i have 20 piercings. 5 in one ear and 5 in the other i also have 3 in my lip 2 in my tounge my eyebrow nose belly button and both nipples i also have 8 tattoos i have more piercing than tattoos because my tattos are all symbols of different things i have gone through in my life. my piercings on the other hand are there because i want them to be yes 20 is alot but i think about this body modification is beautiful to me and when i am older i can take all my piercings out and they will go away no one will ever know that i had them but my tattoos wil be with me til i die so i would rather have more of something that is not permanent than some thing that is

Apr 11, 2008 10:25:00 AM  
Anonymous sunshineorshadow said...

I am fourteen years old and a fan of piercings. Although I don't personally like extreme ones like hood piercings, I think most are beautiful and make you unique. I have my earlobes pierced as well as my hips, and wouldn't have it any other way.

Apr 22, 2008 8:59:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am entering the teaching field very soon and I have 2 piercings. The first is my inner conch (the area in your ear between your actual ear hole and your outer cartilage) and the second is my nape (a bar that looks like a staple that runs through the fleshy part of my neck, parallel to my shoulders, with two gems that screw into the ends, which are approx. 1/2 inch from each other). I know that both of these are unusual, but the are not something that people immediately notice, and I have had no problems with them in the professional world because of this. I'm posting because teens and the younger generation are getting pierced more and more. I know that a lot of parents are on here, and even if you don't want your kids to get these procedures, please do research on these procedures with them, so if they get them later in life, they will be knowledgeable and you will be too. My mom took me to get my conch after we did research together, and I'm glad I got to share that experience with her. It also taught be what to look for in a piercer for my own health.

Apr 25, 2008 9:58:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Im an eighteen-year-old girl. I'm a 2nd year accounting student, And I got my nose pierced yesterday. I got my nose pierced because I think it looks good on me. I don't understand why some people keeps on saying negative things about piercings. If its ugly to u then fine, i respect that. (Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.) The most important thing for me is to do whatever you want to do as long as it won't harm yourself and others as well. We only get to live in this world once. Just don't mind "TOO MUCH" about what others say..

Apr 27, 2008 6:21:00 PM  
Blogger girl on rooftop said...

i was surprised at how many of you seem so put off by tattoos and piercings...then again this is Web MD, so i'm assuming most of you are well into adulthood..looking at all us young 'punks' wanting to go out and get our bodies 'defaced'...

well you are all obviously entitled to your opinions, but if i were you, i would think long and hard about WHY you feel the way you do. and also to be careful with how judgemental you get. Sorry to say it, but it is nearly impossible to not have an opinion that isn't biased on some level..we all have a preconcieved ideas of beauty. Partly due to how we were raised, through media influence, etc. You're not comfortable with what you're not used to...but that CERTAINLY doesn't make tattooing and piercing bad or imoral or 'slutty'

i see the picture above and think to myself that, simply, that person has a lot of piercings, and that they have a lot of guts to go through with that. that's IT. For those of you that are saying that piercings and tattoos are purely for attention, you couldn't be more wrong. everyone has their own idea of what is aesthetically pleasing, and moreover everyone has their own reasons that play into getting body modifications.

I, of course, have my own opinions on the subject, and personally, i operate off of the 'to each his own' theory. Because ultimately it's not YOUR life..it's someone else's. I'm attending art school in the fall, and there are PLENTY of people there who are perfectly fine, successful, intelligent, NORMAL human beings who have tattoos and piercings. I myself have a tattoo. But do you know why i got it? because, personally, i think it looks nice, and it reflects a time in my life i want to remember. This weekend i'm going back for two more...

if i didn't get these tattoos, i believe i would be doing myself a disservice. And many, many people who get tattoos share that same belief. whether getting tattoos or piercings, dying your hair or wearing some nameless avant garde get-up, it all comes down to being true to yourself.

..and for whomever said that we're all just followers when we think we're individuals, you need to grow up. you, my dear, are also a follower...

you wake up every morning, most likely go to work, most likely wear shoes, most likely wear your hair a certain way, most likely wear make-up etc. we are all ultimately followers. and to say otherwise..to judge a certain group of people for 'trying' to be different, is pure ignorance.

Apr 29, 2008 4:14:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i pierced my own cartlidge with a broche and i dont feel any pain unless i touch my ear however i read the info about sepis and i took them out because i was scared how long should they take to heal when i pierced then friday and now its tuesday?

Apr 29, 2008 6:56:00 PM  
OpenID LUNAneptune3 said...

"whoa, that's a lot of piercings!" i steal a second look.

she smiles. i smile.

i share in the joy of others, simply joy. i don't need to go get a piercing, but i celebrate the fact that someone else was brave enough, free enough, healthy enough to do something that made them happy. the world needs happiness and kindness :)

she challenges me to love her, but im excited by the challenge. wrinkles, scars, holes. everything has a story. i'm hear to learn...i'll struggle to keep judgment from my lips, from my mind. but in the struggle im stronger. strong enough to love others in the face of diversity...

and i can love her. and love myself for loving her. and help others learn to love her too...

May 6, 2008 12:03:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes i just have to ask a ? I just had my belly button done a few days ago i just want to know when can i change the earing cause i don't want to change it if it is going to give me an infection... Thanks you for your time and i hope to hear from you soon

May 13, 2008 8:42:00 AM  
Anonymous pope said...

My son is trying to gauge his ears. I'm concern that the holes in his ears will be permant. Are there any facts or publications about ear gauging? Long term concequnces and such. I work in a professional field. I know from my observations, the more piercings and tatoos, etc. the less money you will make, and the less meaninful job you will have. I know the people with limited piercings, are the ones picking up the garbage, usually working a swing shift.

May 17, 2008 11:01:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"I know from my observations, the more piercings and tatoos, etc. the less money you will make, and the less meaninful job you will have. I know the people with limited piercings, are the ones picking up the garbage, usually working a swing shift."

That is a harsh judgement on something you haven't fully looked in to. A lot of people I know with piercings and tattoos, including myself, tend to have a more free attitude toward life. They have jobs that aren't judgemental toward that type of thing because it's what they love doing, not because of the money involved. I have a great job, that doesn't judge the several piercings that I have in my face and ears. I have an eyebrow ring, a marilyn, and a lower labret. I deal with people every day, doing reception, and not once has a customer ever had a problem with any of my piercings. And these are higher income people who live a "normal" life. Try and be more open to these things, and realize that it is ridiculous to make such false assumptions based on your own feelings.

May 19, 2008 11:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I somewhat agree about certain jobs not being available or understanding towards visible piercings & tattoos. However, when you get a piercing and/or tattoo you should take that into account when you decide what and where to get it.

I work in Corporate America, when I was in college I knew I was going to be entering the business world. And as such not everyone is as accepting in this field. I understand it and I play the part. I don't like it but I understand it and at the end of the day it is company policy, if I don't like it I can leave. But I like the job I love what I do, I worked long and hard for my degrees. I do make a good living however if all my piercings & tattoos were visible I know I would probably be limited to certain jobs. Just look at the previous posts for one post that is for it there are at least 2 that are against it. It is those people that could be interviewing you.

I have 4 "regular" lobe piercings, a daith, tragus, tongue & navel piercings. I also have 1 tattoo. So when I do go for an interview or have a conference I take out 3 of the 4 lobe piercings and wear dark stockings to cover my foot tattoo. The daith & tragus don't show with my hair down.

I don't judge people with piercings & tattoos however I can not say the same for other people. It is a shame, I have heard many times "oh we really like so and so but she has so many tattoos". Basically that person is saying yeah we like them but if they had no tattoos we would like them more.

May 20, 2008 3:12:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a few piercings myself my most extravagent one is a Star pierced in to my back (Surface Piercings) in between my sholders. i have hardly had any trouble from it but on reflection should of got them done seperatly instead of all 5 at one sitting. i do think the person in the pic has taken it to far tho.

May 21, 2008 10:40:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I use to have my ear pierced but let them closed up,I hated earrings.My son just did a research paper on tatooing and piercing and there is alot of DISEASES out there today going on with these Tatooing and Piercing.Alot of these kids today and people who do them can't donate thier BLOOD at all because of the Diseases out there.How about if your PARENTS or a LOVED ONE needed BLOOD and you were the only person who can give BLOOD to them but you can't because of TATOOING and PIERCING ABUSE?It's ashame.Oh will it's your life and your Families life.Not mine!

May 22, 2008 5:30:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To the person above me who said that you can't donate blood after a tattoo or piercing is wrong. I donated blood every other month for 3 years while getting various piercings and it wasn't until I got my tattoo on my wrist that they said no... and I only have to wait a year and I can donate again. I have 19 piercings. and 3 tattoos. I have my monroe, my bottom lip, 7 in each ear, my tongue, and my nipples. I have a tattoo on my wrist, one on my neck, and on my back. To the people who feel like tattoos are insignificant... They're wrong. Every tattoo has a purpose. Every tattoo has a meaning. Im 22 years old. I think everyday what are my tattoos going to look like when Im older... But Im not living for then Im living for now.

May 24, 2008 4:49:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my ears are gauged to 3/4 of an inch, and im pretty sure i just blew them out.

what do i do? is there any way to reverse it, or do i need to go in to a doctor?

Jun 4, 2008 7:03:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As a mother of two daughters (22 & 15) I'm a firm believer of waiting to get pierced or tattooed until you are 18. I tell my youngest that she has to figure out some other way to express her “individuality” (she wanted a nose piercing and now is pushing for “really small” ear gauges) only because the intensity of that desire will lessen as she gets older. My oldest never got that eyebrow piercing she so desperately wanted at 14 and the only piercings (that I know of...) are another set in her ears. Bottom-line, I’ve told both of them that allowing the first “socially un-accepted” piercing would lead me to having to allow more and what at point might they stop getting them? That it is important to me the girls understand how they’ll be judged right alongside the individuals that live up to the stereotype, regardless of how “good” they actually are.

Jun 11, 2008 5:51:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 26, have 3 small children(2 are girls). My mother had my ears pierced when i was 6weekds old. And then when i was 10 i had the second ear piercing. I also have my nose, both nipples, belly button, and my hood pierced and I have 13 tattoos. I was the first person that I knew to get anything pierced on my own (other than ears), and I was 18. The first was my belly button. I didn't do it for any other reason besides I wanted to. I had and still have a nice stomach area. I think its really cute. I have many belly rings that have charms and trinkettes on them. I love them. I have tatoos everywhere, and i mean everywhere. Its not so that i can stand out because all of my tats can and most of the time do stay covered and the only piercings that can be noticed is my nose and ears. I have a small pink stud in my nose that most people don't even see unless they look hard. Self expression shouldn't be labeled are marked as a way to fit in. If you was to see me in a crowd you would never know that i had so many tatoos or piercing, i would seem just as "normal" as the next person.
None of my piercings have ever been infected. Alot of infection are caused my the ring used or bad after care instructions. I have spoke to my doctor before every piercing and had him check them about 1 week after and them about 1month after. That is not nessesary but I wanted to take the extra precaution of knowing my doctor knew everything, every step of the way.

Jun 14, 2008 9:10:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 19 and I have 5 piercings in my ears (3 on one side, 2 on the other), I have my belly button pierced and I just got my nose done yesterday (which brings me to WebMD)and I have decided on a tattoo. I am a 3.9 GPA and Honors student and work in a hospital while going working towards my bachelors to go to Medical School to be a PA. I am a good girl who simply wants to be happy with herself (not please others!) If I think a nose ring is cute, I'll do it, you only live once and I thoroughly thought it through. I personally think its human nature to judge others and therefore its understandable to have thoughts or comments such as "That is too much" or "That is just trashy." However, when we have instances like that we should try to refrain from stereotyping and take a look at ourselves, and for those of you who believe in God (I myself do!) should know that he should be the only person to justifiably JUDGE and GRADE some one! Just because you are a believer does NOT give you the right to label wrong/right and condemn so. I think alot of us make comments like that because we're either envious of not possessing the intensity or bravery of some one else's individuality or we ourselves wouldn't ever dream of having a full sleeve for example or a bull ring but for other people, it's acceptable to them and it is their BODY, their artwork and expression: why beat down another's acceptance and embrace of their body and lack of insecurity of doing what they think is beautiful? So we feel better? Grow up America.

And back to the nose situation. It wont stop bleeding... not BAD bleed but low-moderate. I got it done last night (Wed. 6-19) and the stud she put in was too long for my nose so she replaced it about 5-10 minutes after. I figure my nose is responding to the shock of having a foreign piece of metal in my nose and its trying to fight infection but I'm a little worried to. I'm thinking I will give it a couple days and if it isn't better then maybe opt to take it out :[ but that would suck because I'm a tittybaby when it comes to needles (receiving... I can watch someone else all day...) and each piercing I have seems to signify that I'm conquering my inhibitions....

But anyhow, any suggestions?

Jun 19, 2008 7:00:00 PM  
Anonymous kofi said...

Is it right to pierce one ear at the same time twice at seplete holes and what does it signify?

Jun 19, 2008 10:33:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi, I am a 46 year old mother of an 18 year old boy. I have 20 Tattoos, the most recent I got about 2 years ago along with my husband. We are not bikers, nor low income cheerio children, we are upper middle class. I am a physician assistant and my husband is a banker, he has 17 tattoos. Both of us only have 1 tattoo that can be seen when we are dressed for work. That is the one we got together. I have multiple ear piercings, my tongue pierced and my navel. When my son turned 16 he asked to have his Left ear pierced, I said fine and I (I am also a part-time body piercer) pierced it for him. Then about 6 months later he wanted another hole in his ear and one in his tongue. I did his ear but said he would have to pay to have his tongue done, I would sign the consent form. The holes close up folks and in all honestly if he is doing that and not drugs, I am a happy Mom. He is what they refer to as "Straight Edge" No Sex, No Drugs, No Alcohol, No Tobacco/ and a gentleman. So, I think the whole social norm has shifted in our favor. It is no longer obscene to have more than one hole in your ear or to have them in different places. NEWSFLASH!!!! There will always be those that take things to the extreme for the shock value. I say live and let live, it is not our place to judge.
Live like you were dyin' folks, life is not a dress rehearsal.

Jun 27, 2008 7:12:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am 35 years old, mom to three boys...I have my hood pierced, my nose pierced and two visible tattoos...I love them don't regret them one bit!!! Every woman should get a hood piercing, trust me the benefits outweigh the risks!!! Quick to heal and the attention that I get from having it is so worth it!

Jul 2, 2008 10:39:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 19 and I've got 7 ear piercings, three cartilage including the rook I also have two tattoos. and love them all, and thought deeply about each one. I would like to get my tongue pierced this friday, and was wondering if anyone had any words of advice. I've been talked out of it once, and wont let it happen again. but i like to be informed.

Jul 9, 2008 9:41:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

make sure that you dont do into public hot tubs because my friend judt got out of the hospital because she had an industrial and her infection got so bad that it affected her whole ear also went into her jame and neck. She didn't believe me when i told her to go to the doctor right away but she waited a week and went to the guy that pierced it and then she went on vacation and she ended up in th hospital with that bad infection. Just becareful when you have infection and may sure to take care of it right away

Jul 11, 2008 7:54:00 PM  
Anonymous sel said...

i am a 17 year old girl, senior in high school, and have NO PIERCINGS. no one has ever botherered me about not having my ears pierced either. i think tattoos and any other piercings besides ear lobes make people look super trashy and needing attention. except maybe ONE ear cartilage piercing if its pretty and not huge or anything. im getting my ear lobes pierced soon =]

Jul 12, 2008 3:42:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am not opposed to piercings, because I should not tell someone they may or may not have a belly button ring. But, I personally like a minimalist approach, and I think its unwise to pierce parts of your body that might be damaged through intercourse or sexual activity, or just sitting down, ouch! Too much distracts me, and I have difficulty separating the person from the object protruding from their body, and it looks so gross. If someone chooses to stretch their ear lobes like I have seen at our nearest ice cream parlor, I can not help but stare at that big black circle of yuck, and wonder, why? I wonder why someone chooses to do this to their body, their beautiful body. Bodies are beautiful without all of this. A simple delicate nose earring or one or two in the ear, but I prefer to not see anything like eyebrows or lips or even abundance on the ears.

Jul 28, 2008 3:27:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As I told my son, it does not matter that God is the only one that is supposed to judge you, people will judge you anyway. A note on the nose: for some people, they never fully heal... mine didn't.... and with children around, it can be dangerous and painful (kicked in the nose while changing a diaper). I don't care if others want to pierce themselves, but for me, it is not worth it to go through the pain again. Some mentioned that the nose piercing did not hurt... Mine did... alot! Ouch! Good luck!

Aug 3, 2008 3:00:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can not believe how many people have said that piercings are done for "attention". I have my ears pierced and my tongue pierced, NEITHER of which I done for ANYONE but me, and before anyone says anything about my tongue, NO I didn't have a boyfriend at the time, nor does very many people know that I even have it! Point being, not everyone gets piercings for attention...on a side note, who the hell are we to judge what others do. "Let him that is without sin among you first cast the stone" Stop judging people for thier life choices!!

Aug 6, 2008 12:31:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I recently got a Marilyn piercing and I love it. I decided kind of 'on the fly' to actually get it, even though it was something that i had wanted to do for along time, and I don't regret it one bit. My friend (who has both nipples pierced, his lip pierced, and a tatoo on his chest), got his tongue pierced the same day I did my Marilyn.
I'm 19 and my parents HATE it. My mom said it looks stupid ('like you have a permanent zit on your face!' were her exact words...) but I think it's beautiful.
Some people like to think of body piercings and tatoos as mutilation, but I'm sure many of you will agree that body art is meant to accentuate beauty, not take away from it.
And, like I said to my Mom: 'I haven't ruined my face, I'm just decorating it...' ;-)

Aug 7, 2008 8:21:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If the worst thing my grandkids (or anyone for that matter) can say about me is "she has tatoos and piercings" than I'm good with it!

Aug 7, 2008 9:28:00 PM  
Anonymous casey said...

i have been a body piercer for a little over a year, after doing a two year apprenticeship, and a year before that working in a piercing/tattoo shop as a receptionist. here is where i'm going to have to disagree with your article.
"infections are quite common until the piercings heal."
four years in the industry, i have never once seen a true infection, although almost daily i have people coming in saying their piercing is infected. their "infection" is actually irritation, usually due to people constantly touching and messing with their piercings during the healing time. other common causes of irritation in piercings are inappropriate jewelry, placement, or aftercare. piercing guns can easily cause infection because they can't be sterilized. "butterfly back" studs are also made of far inferior materials that many people are sensitive to and the small crevasses are a breeding ground for bacteria. some discharge is normal for many piercings, many people confuse this for infection too.
infection isn't nearly as common as people being uninformed. piercing tends to get a bad rap, due to poorly trained piercers, thinking its easier than it is, and overly dramatic clients who don't follow their proper aftercare.
as a matter of aesthetics, that varies from person to person and no one has a right to judge someone on that. thats like saying, "ew! i don't like green shirts!" or "ew! tan people gross me out!" at least body piercing doesn't cause cancer!

Aug 27, 2008 2:44:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Clitoral hood piercings are dangerous!
I had a "hood" piercing done and had an infection after using a hottub. Very painful!
It would swell up for seemingly no reason and would be very painful.
A few years later I took it out and have had all kinds of problems.
I have no feeling in the clitoris and am unable to orgasm anymore. I have an unexplained pain the shoots up my pelvis into my abdomen.

Aug 27, 2008 8:26:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm 15 years old and a sophomore in high school. My mom wouldnt let me get my ear lube pierced until my 13th bday, so on that exact day, she took me. She got hers done twice in both ears when she was 16 (shes now in late 40's) and regrets it. she has always told me that im not allowed to get anything besides the one hole in each ear as long as im living under her roof. but recently, i went to walmart and bought an earpiercing gun and single earring, and did my cartilage myself. she found out about it, and i got grounded. but it drives me crazy that she gets to say how im going to feel about MYSELF when im her age. sure, she wishes she hadnt done it, but that absolutely does not mean im goin to regret it. and when im her age, if i do, so what? its a little hole on the top of my ear, and no one will judge me by that.

I strongly agree with people piercing whatever they wish. I think nose, ears, and belly is cute , and will one day allow my children to do those things. Its a personal preferance and decision, and no one elses opinion should get in the way of that.

Aug 30, 2008 1:24:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ive had 22.5 extra holes in my body
only one got infected

i know how to take care of my Piercings
if ur smart and know what ur looking for in a body mod shop, then u wont get infected
if u you want amazing piercers, then look for the most clean.

Sep 4, 2008 4:29:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have an industrial piercing but unfortunetly I have had keloids form on both holes. Is there anyway I can get rid of them or at leats shrink their size?

Sep 10, 2008 11:28:00 PM  
Anonymous jacosa12 said...

im wanting to get an industrial bar through my ear and i was wondering three things. Is the piercing the same siza as a regular ear pierce? Does it hurt worse and im only twelve so is there much of a difference in healing?

Sep 23, 2008 10:05:00 PM  
Blogger **4** said...

that's really funny. My mom had my ears pierced right after birth, and I didn't get the second hole in each ear until I think 8th grade but it could have been 9th, and then a 3rd set around 10th, but those 2 closed off.
My mom was ok with the ear piercings, but she wanted me to get a bellybutton ring too, because they were cute. So at 17 I did. I still have it (3 yrs later), mainly bc without it, my stomach looks SO weird...but I don't do extravigant rings, just nice ones that won't show through clothes...i'm studying to be a teacher!

people are surprised to hear my mom wanted the bellybutton ring for me, but she just wants me to have fun, and when i get older, i'm not going to be showing off my bellybutton so the effects won't be embarrassing when I'm older

Oct 5, 2008 4:56:00 PM  
Anonymous liaaaaaa said...

There should be absolutely no reason why piercings should get infected if you look after them well enough. I'm 16 and i used to want to get my tongue peirced, probably because everyone else was. but then i decided i really really can't be bothered.

Oct 6, 2008 8:55:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If not a fan of intentional pain, why would you intentionally cause pain to your 2 year old daughter? Not to mention the risk of infection and the possible choking hazard. Seeing babies with pierced ears really gets me - breaks my heart to ge my kids vaccinated because I know it hurts them, surely would never put holes in their ears just so they could look "cute". Nothing like having someone else' ideal of beauty forced on you at the tender age of 2. Surely as an adult you would not allow someone to forcibly hold you down and put holes in your body while you screamed. You did just that to your child.

Oct 20, 2008 12:15:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So, I got my tongue pierced early in the summer and it has been pretty normal, except for when I drink beer the next day my tongue is a greenish color and lasts for a few days- I have to mouthwash consistently to get it to leave. I'm wondering if this is peculiar for this age of a piercing.
Also, I currently have bronchitis and now my tongue is a disgusting orange/red color from (I think) some kind of discharge. Could my bronchitis possibly infect my tongue?
I'm in college and don't have health care where I'm living currently. Would it be best for me to take it out immediately and use peroxide consistently on it or would I be able to keep it in and wash it?

Oct 30, 2008 9:02:00 PM  
Anonymous Diandra said...

I, personally, am a fan of piercings, but that picture just scares me. There should be a limit to where some people can put piercings or just how many piercings they can have.
But, that should be up to society, I suppose.
I'm only 17, turning 18 in 2 weeks and have quite a few piercings myself. I got my ears pierced, once in each ear, as soon as I was born. So, I've always had those. But, around the 7th grade, I got my ears pierced for a second time. That was such a big thing when I was younger. Then, just before my 16th birthday, I got the cartilage of my left ear pierced. It was sort of a thing to show who I was and how I wanted to be different. A few months later, came my eyebrow piercing(which I no longer have because a keloid formed). Over my high school career, I got my eyebrow pierced, my lip pierced once, then my tongue pierced and now that I'm a freshman in college, I just recently got the other side of my lip pierced to make it snakebites.
As of right now, I'm dealing with the hassle of the redness and the tender lip, but it looks really good.
I find certain facial piercings, like lip piercings, attractive on people.
With tattoos, I have no preference. I personally also have one, which I sometimes regret because I have no idea why I would get the tattoo of a cartoon character on my calf muscle. But, what's done is done and I can't do anything about it.
I enjoy my piercings and my tattoo. It's who I am. They define me as a person.
I think without facial piercings, we would be just like everyone else. Piercings and tattoos make us stand out in the crowd. They're not just for attention, but they individualize us as different people.
That is what I see in my piercings.

Nov 3, 2008 2:13:00 PM  
Anonymous Diandra said...

Oh! And, I did forget to add, with all of the facial and oral piercings, my mother was the person who actually suggested them.
She would even take me to get them done. My mother isn't socially unacceptable of facial piercings and tattoos. She gets tattoos all the time, and she works for Wells Fargo!
She even has her tongue pierced and 12 piercings split amongst her ears.
So, it has to be a personal preference whether you enjoy piercings or not. It definitely differs from person to person.

Nov 3, 2008 2:16:00 PM  
Anonymous Diandra said...

I keep forgetting so many things. And, I apologize for posting so many comments.
I don't only have facial piercings, I have quite a few ear piercings. On my right ear, I actually don't have any new piercings besides the original two earrings.
But, on my left ear, I have the original two on my lobe, plus an industrial and two other cartilage rings.
Of course, I got all the cartilage piercings in one day. PAINFUL! But, it was worth it and I absolutely love them.

Nov 3, 2008 2:24:00 PM  
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Nov 3, 2008 6:43:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi, i am an 18 year male, and i have 10 piercings and two tattoes. both my lobes, 5 cartilidge in my left and two cartilidge in my right, my labret, and plan on getting my eyebrow done tomorrow. My tattoes are a cross on my upper arm and the chineese symbol just below the shirt line on my spine. All have special meaning to me, and i don't think anyone should be judged for having them. Plus, its not your body, so why should you have any say...

Nov 8, 2008 11:58:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just because people have peircing,doesnt mean that they look "slutty" or "trashy"
im not even half the age that most of you are and i have snakebites,septum,and monroe there nothing wrong with peircings.they can be removed..

Nov 11, 2008 9:14:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I guess it's a cultural thing too. Where my mother was born, it was perfectly common to bring out a little try of earrings after a baby girl had been born. They'd pierce her ears just before she left the hospital. They shaved the heads of all the babies too, since the hair that you're born with doesn't tend to be the healthiest.

I can say my mother was rather confused by the looks she got when she asked if they weren't at least going to shave my head when I was born in NY. Either way, I got my ears pierced at the age of 3.

I'm all for body modification as long as it isn't intentionally hurting or damaging anyone. I've still only got my earlobes pierced and at age 21, I still can't see myself getting more piercings, but hey! Have fun.

Nov 23, 2008 7:07:00 PM  
Anonymous -JalopyJill said...

This was left by someone prev:

I always find it amazing that those who proclaim that they are individuals and non-conformists are really conforming to the most desperate extreme. They who pierce to the extreme will be the first to condemn "trendy" people. Are they that unintelligent to see that it is they who are followers?

All I have to say is...I have my dimples pierced, my lip, my nose, and my labret. My husband has the back of his neck pierced, not to mention covered from head to toe with tattoo's (the both of us). We are business owners, have numerous degrees and work with people on a daily and constant basis. NEVER would we condem anyone for being "trendy" nor are we followers or unitelligant, that is a ridiculous statement!! As far as im concerened and im sure numerous people will agree... those who would write such nonsense and assume such garbage is the one condeming what they may not know.

Dec 3, 2008 5:46:00 PM  
Anonymous jalopyjill said...

I know from my observations, the more piercings and tatoos, etc. the less money you will make, and the less meaninful job you will have. I know the people with limited piercings, are the ones picking up the garbage, usually working a swing shift.


...WOW that's a harsh statementnot to mention wrong!! Im covered in tattoo's my feet, arms, chest, legs even ears and I own a company and work full time in the health care field. I also have my dimples, nose, lips and labret pierced. Never do i get slack from people at work. Nor did my modifications hold me back from being sucsessful. Im 27,married, own a home and have a child in catholic school. So I do feel its unfair for you to say or make assumptions about the things your BLIND too.

Dec 3, 2008 6:27:00 PM  

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