When Doctor's Dad Needs Eye Surgery
Last week my father told me his eye doctor recommended that he undergo cataract surgery. As an ophthalmologist my mind is flooded with many conflicting thoughts.Should I step-in and organize things?
Should I make a few phone calls so that my father has access to some high-volume surgical superstar?
Should I make discreet inquiries regarding the qualifications and reputation of his local eye surgeon?
Should I just be still and let Dad continue to run his own life as he has for 86 years?
My dad is very active and enjoys good health. He is one of the funniest people I know and definitely the kindest. I want the absolute best for him and I know how to get it.
That's why I will just be still and let him continue to run his own life.
I have learned to fear VIP Medicine. I have witnessed how it actually causes more complications and leads to the kinds of disasters that never befall ordinary folks.
When health care providers begin to bend the rules to accommodate 'someone special' they make dangerous compromises. They typically offer a lower standard of care. How's that for a paradox - important people receiving marginal care!
Dad went for his cataract operation yesterday. He was back home in just a few hours - no problems. Time to plan our next trip together.
I'm glad I chose not to treat him like a VIP. He's the kindest person I've ever known.
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1 Comments:
Dr. Bill,
This reminds me of the old statement a plumber made to his customer,"To show up I charge $75 fee and then your the labor cost is $125.00/hr. However is you want to watch me work and make comments you will incur an additional $750.00 fee.".
You are right by letting your father proceed with the treatment he elected. Some times overseeing an important project can generate pressure and stress that may overcomplicate the work to be performed.
Thomas Brian Harold, MSCS
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