Breast-feed or else
That's great. No one doubts that breast milk - refined by mother nature over a few million years of evolution - is the perfect food to nourish a human infant. The evidence is compelling: human milk lowers the risk of early infections and SIDS, and may provide long term benefits with reduced allergies, obesity and risk of various other diseases. Let's take "breast is best" as a given.
But how far should we go to encourage moms to breast-feed? Or, more precisely, how far should we go to discourage moms not to breast-feed. Here's where the controversy lies, fueled by a recent article in the New York Times (from which I shamelessly stole the title of this blog).
What controversy? Have a look at this spot which has been aired on TV.
Hmmm... What do you think? Realistic, tough-love way to get across the risks of not breast-feeding? Justifiable scare tactics, given what we know? Isn't a little parental guilt-tripping a small price to promote infant health?
To help you better understand the benefits and risks, let's take a closer look at one of the many studies, in this case breast-feeding's protective effect on early respiratory infections.* This study showed (and the headlines trumpeted) that breast-feeding cut the incidence of respiratory infections in the vulnerable first month of life about in half.
Sounds impressive. It is impressive. But let's dig deeper and put the findings in perspective:
- The protective effect, curiously, was true only for girls; breast-feeding didn't seem to provide protection for boys.
- Breathing infections occurred in 241 of 13,224 (1.8%) infants in the first month of life. Put another way, 98% of the infants did not contract a respiratory infection, regardless of whether or not they breast-fed. So, yes, breast-feeding conferred an advantage, but the odds are great that an infant will be fine either way. An important benefit, to be sure (every little bit helps when it comes to prevention!), but not exactly the same as not riding a bucking bronco in the third trimester, is it?
On top of that, is it fair to scold those who decide not to breast-feed (or do so for a short time) when we as a society are unsupportive of breast-feeding moms? Very few companies, for example, have a designated area where a working mom can express her breast milk or have on-site child care. And, anyway, we weirdo Americans think it's obscene for a mom to breast-feed her infant in public. Perhaps working to change corporate America's practices and American attitudes towards openly breast-feeding would be a better use of our efforts.
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One of the scourges of 21st century pediatrics, in my view, is its incessant parent-bashing (anyway, most of you parents are plenty good at feeling guilty about your parental "shortcomings" without my help). Parenting is a tough and complicated business, almost all of you are conscientiously doing your best, and kids are resilient. Sure, breast-feeding is best and if you can do so, great. But if you don't, odds are still that your child will be just fine - unless, that is, you feel so anxious and guilty about it that it ruins your emotional well-being and undermines your relationship with your little one.
Promote the benefits of breast-feeding? By all means. Beat moms over the head who decide not to? It's not fair. It's not justified. It stinks.
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* Study cited
"Reduced risk of neonatal respiratory infections among breastfed girls but not boys." Pediatrics: Oct., 2003
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/112/4/e303
Related Topics: Is Guilt Getting the Best of You?, Breastfeeding 101: A Mother's Guide
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