Penis Enlargement
If you tune into late-night TV and are male, you might come away feeling terribly inadequate. Between the ads for herbal "sexual performance supplements" and the ads claiming that there are products available to enlarge one's penis, a man could go to bed at night feeling as though what he thought was normal was now somehow deficient.
Here's the straight deal on these products (and possibly the shortest blog post I will ever write!):
So-Called "Penis Enlargement" Supplements
Male enhancement medications and herbs are just another way that unethical businessmen will play on men's fears of inadequacy to make a buck...in fact, make many millions of bucks. Just good ol' snake oil come back again in a new skin.
Penis Exercises ("Jelquing")
Apparently there are those that believe that their penis is bigger with these exercises. In my practice, I don't think they work.
Herbal Viagra "Substitutes"
These are in the same category with the "Penis Enlargment" Supplements. There are supplements that men can and should take, but they do not contain ingredients marketed as "Viagra Substitutes".
In another post, I'll describe supplements that are helpful to men to maintain good health. In the meantime, keep your money for the advertised "inadequacy substitutes" in your pocket.
Related Topics: Does Size Matter?, Advertising Red Flags
Here's the straight deal on these products (and possibly the shortest blog post I will ever write!):
So-Called "Penis Enlargement" Supplements
Male enhancement medications and herbs are just another way that unethical businessmen will play on men's fears of inadequacy to make a buck...in fact, make many millions of bucks. Just good ol' snake oil come back again in a new skin.
Penis Exercises ("Jelquing")
Apparently there are those that believe that their penis is bigger with these exercises. In my practice, I don't think they work.
Herbal Viagra "Substitutes"
These are in the same category with the "Penis Enlargment" Supplements. There are supplements that men can and should take, but they do not contain ingredients marketed as "Viagra Substitutes".
In another post, I'll describe supplements that are helpful to men to maintain good health. In the meantime, keep your money for the advertised "inadequacy substitutes" in your pocket.
Related Topics: Does Size Matter?, Advertising Red Flags
238 Comments:
What is the average size of a penis?
The average runs 5 3/4 to 6 1/2 inches with rarer numbers being smaller and larger.
so what can men do to increase lengh and width?
i would also like t know what can i do to increase the length of my penis
if you have excess fat around your pubic area, does that have an impact on the length of your penis? Can you lose that excessf fat by dieting and exercising?
ok the size matter, sometimes, but its not how big it is, its how long you can go, and how you use it
where is the post that tells us what we can do to maintain health and are there 'real' answers to getn a bigger penis that dont lead in circles?
having a larger penis isn't always better, the best medicine is security in ones self.
Seeing as I am an "average guy", I found out that size may make youfeel insecure. But the real test of a man is compassion, duration, knowledge, and if your partner smiles wickedly afterwards. I'll pass on the "snake oil". My lover never complains, she says I'm "perfect". Wow.
Mine is 9 inches long and 8 inches around, so I guess I'm blessed, but seeing those guys in porn I can't help but want it to be bigger.
How can enlarge the length and girth of my penis
As a male with an above average sized penis I'd just like to say you averaged sized males aren't missing all that much, the women ive been with as a 22year old have all told me the only difference between an 8 inch penis and a five inch penis is the length of time it has to pleasure them in one stroke. The average sized male should be thinking more about increasing their stamina and speed then worrying about the size of their organ because most women probably dont care whether or not u are very well endowed or not as long as u use it right
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How can you enlarge the length and width of your penis without using drugs?
I am from Texas. The stated where "everything is bigger" and to tell the true my penis isn't huge about 6 1/2 - 7 inches. I have never had a woman tell me anything about my size, but the reason most men feel the way they do about there size is do to the fact of a mad woman makeing a remark. The thing you have to keep in mind when you engauge in sex with these wemon the make no complants. Yet when they feel the need to belittle you thats when the comment about your size comes out. Keep in mind at no point before did they make a comment. thus it really dosnt mater, you had your fun leave it at that..
Be careful what you wish for. My penis is 14" by 9" and my wife and past lovers could never accommodate it... I am now divorced due to my penis. The only way I can get great satisfaction is via masturbation.
yeah this all sounds good and uplifting but theres just got to be a way to increas the size of a penis. just becasue is sounds fishy to this doctor dosent mean he should write it off as hopless.
In a discussion on the topic of penis enlargement, I raise my eyebrow to the lack of comments or questions on penis pumps. Do they work? I've read some articles, but haven't gotten a straight answer. I've read that penis pumps may cause perminant damage to the penis and as a result the penis won't completely erect. I want to know if there is any truth to this claim.
As for the snake oil~ I am no doctor, but I have to agree with them on this one. I think size is partially genetic but I've never heard of a son asking his dad about his size... (a joke) What I can say is that in my personal experience, sex itself may have caused growth. I experienced two "growth spurts" durring two different relationships in a two year span. I went from 6" x 1 1/2" to 7 1/2" x 2" in 6-10 months ONLY having sex (age 19-20, 1-2 months between change in relationships). Lots and LOTS of sex.
Doc: Is growth genetic, caused by stimuli, or possibly from dietary habits?
I am 5 1/8" long and have been since I was 9yrs old. I suppose that's normal... Of course I've also been only 5' 9" tall since 9 yrs. old that's normal...especially when I'm the only in my famil like this.My whole famiy is over 6' tall (even my twin sister) and all the males are "hung like a horse". Even the smallest condom sold on the market are too big so my sex life is severely limited. Is this NORMAL???
If there is fat around the groin area will the penis be smaller? Is there some way of losing this fat?
HI, I HAVE ALWAYS SUSPECTED THAT THE PENIS SEX GROWTH INDUSTRY IS THE BIGGEST RIP OFF THAT PREY ON MENS FRAIL EGOS. THERE SHOULD BE A LAW THAT EXPOSES THIS FRAUDULENT CLAIM, YET IT GOES ON AND ON. HOW CAN THE WORLDS MEN BE ALERTED FROM BEING DUPED INTO THIS MULTI MILLION DOLLAR INDUSTRY? SHOULDN'T ALL DOCTORS MAKE THIS KNOWN TO THEIR MALE PATIENTS AND THE SEX COLUMNISTS BE ALERTED TO PRINT THIS FROM TIME TO TIME? MAYBE EVEN DEAR ABBYS COLUMN? I HOPE THEY ARE PUT OUT OF BUISNESS AND THEIR BANK ACCOUNTS GO BELLY UP .
If there is fat around the groin area will the penis be smaller? Is there some way of losing this fat?
i'm 20yrs old and i was just circumcized like 18 days ago. before the circumcision my penis was 5 3/4, almost 6 inches. today i measured it and it's 5 inches. do this normaly happen after a circumcision Dr. Marks? is there anything i can do to get back where i was?
hey gentlemen! iam 20 years old and i am about 5 exact...and i am good looking, not trying to be a jerk or anything, but do you think that if ur not well edowed that your appearance COULD make up for size?
What can I do to make my penis larger pills? stretches? What? Will someone please tell me....?
How do you increase stamina and speed?? Is there a possible way?
Yes Im only 4 and half inches long will this be to small for a normal size woman?
My roomate swears he gained 2 inches using a penis pump. So I bought an industrial strenght hand pump kind and get that sucker down to around 30 cm/Hg vacuum for about 20 mins a session. So far all I've gotten was this swollen, heavy penis that goes back to normal within hours. But..it does get bigger in the tube...just wish I could use it there..lol. age 48
It's no wonder why many man feel inadequate in the size department with all the porn showing larger the the average bear penis actors and models. It's just like woman and their breast size.
I am a woman and I have been with a man with an adequate-size penis and am now with one with a smaller penis. To be honest, SIZE DOES MATTER. But it's only one ingredient in sex. The man with the larger one was lousy at making ME feel good--he was all about himself. But the man with the smaller one is wonderful at making me feel good. Yes, I would like it if my husband was bigger (thicker). Length really doesn't matter (unless you're like less than 3 inches long)--it's the thickness that woman feel the most--especially after having babies. Men think about the size of their penis as much--if not less--than women think about their breast size and it's because of the media and porn that flaunt it around. Women struggle more because you can see breast size with clothing on, but men don't show their penis size until it's time for sex.
When it comes down to it, I'd rather be with the man I'm with because he's not selfish in bed. The most important thing for a man to know about sex is, the FOREPLAY is the highlight for women. No foreplay=lousy sex. Lousy foreplay=lousy sex. Great foreplay=great sex.
Oh, and for the man who keeps asking about excess fat around the groin area, it does make a big difference. The best way to get rid of that is to get a running routine going.
i`m about 9" by 6.5", no lie.. its about 1 in 10,000 that are like that. dont listen to all the BS.. b/c it is BS!
14 inches is bigger that the biggest in the world, they are lying..
I'm a woman & i can tell u size REALLY does matter!ive been with guys of all sizes and i dont care how well you can work it, if its too small, its not as pleasurable. Im not sure how many the person who said that 14 in is a lie has seen, but i guarentee they were telling the truth & still not the biggest in the world! If its not big, you bettr work twice as hard or get good @goin down! I do kno guys are able to go longer if they stop a minute before they are going to cum, let the blood flow slow down, then keep going. Also IF your REALLY compatible in size w/ each other, all the girl will have to do is get on top for a minute and it should quickly hit the spot on its own. As for increasing size, its about genetics and your body type/size/ build --just like a girls boobs--without surgury theres not much you can do to change what u got!! The fat around your pubic area can decrease with targeted exercises, but it will not make the size of it any bigger.
I've seen plenty of comments on the porn industries sizes. What you fail to realize is the majority of those guys use a pump before shooting scenes. That is also why if you watch closely the are slipping out and the penis does not seem fully erect.
yea im 4inches long 1inch wide and only 5'5.. im 15 years old but ahevnt really started growing yet.... maybe i will never... im wondering tho about that larger penis thing... natuaral way to do this...
How can I increase the blood flow in my penis?
Our Men's Health: Man-to-Man board is an excellent place to find answers to your questions.
I'm a woman, and the man I am currently with is really small. SIZE DOES MATTER! Again, like the other woman who posted, it only matters if you're less than 3 inches. Unfortunately, my man is. He's a great guy! But honestly, this could be a deal breaker. I really would like to know if there is anything out there that could give him a "growth spurt". Many women, including myself, have experienced increased breast size with different birth control pills. Is there anything, possibly hormonal in nature, that would affect men in the penis department?
Women just have to deal wit the deck we are given. I am only six, and of course wish I could be 9 or 10 inches... because in my mind, I believe having that size would make me feel more confident, thus, esacalating my sexual "prowess". Thus, producing an effect in my partner that is magnetic. Women love confidence, and men that are above 7 are confident... so that confidence becomes even more sexual energy for the oman, and then she in turn "feels: more staisfied by her "lareger" partner... all because its the confidence factor... and once again, that factor only comes to play, by being big... cant be so confident being average... I hate being avergae and would do anything to have 2 or three inches more... to be 9 inches would feel so awesome!
Size matters. I know it, we all know it. Why does it matter, is another story completely... tis up to each individual woman.
My current partner tells me she is satisfied with me, my size stamina and what I do for and to her... I still feel she would really love me and feel happy to be with me if I was like her past boyfriend who was around 10 inches long and 8 inches thick. She claims it hurt many times, but I question... why did she never break up with him? Why would a woman stay with a manthat sexually offers her more pain than pleasure? My answer is simple... she really lies to me, to my face... she really loved his size and secretly wishes I could be his size.. maybe she cheats on me.. who knows?! I feel she only remains with me, because I have a great paying career... I offer her a luxurious life.. she is not working.. allshe has to do is go shopping, ge sun, relax at home... but she is not happy... sexually pleasure, equals complete happiness... and I do not think or feel that my 6 inches can give or offer her "happiness".
i have a very small penis
it has been quite a problem
my friends think i should see someone.
its only 4 and 1/2 inches
when erect.
is that an issue?
To all those who are questioning if size really matters; it is all depending on who is on the recieving end. from an ex-slut:
If you are uncomfortable with your size, find out what is making you so uncomfortable... The people we are closest to (spouse/parter) can support and calm the insecurities. OR make them more profound. Just be comfortable with who you are; and if the person you are performing with doesnt approve; shame on them for not loving your "normal sized package". I am a 20 yr old female. had sex with many guys from 2 inches to 9 1/2 inches.
My favorite sex was at 7 but he had girth. I am now with a 5 3/4 AND he has really gotten good with using it. He used to be really insecure ,but with time and lots of awesome sex; he has come out of his "shell" and is now just as EXCELLENT as the 7 inch guy.
I thik it is important to share your feelings with your partner because you become more comfortable with each others bodies or performance. I am a 36 DDD and believe me it is Not cool... I already have stretch marks on my boobs and want to get rid of them and lifted maybe when I am 35. This makes me insecure and I let him know. He loves me for who I am and we have been together for 5 years!
As another women said, you can tell the girth moreso due to changes with time (pregnancy, # of partners, aging).
STOP WORRYING SO MUCH; IF SHE OR HE DOESNT LIKE YOUR JOHNSON THEN IT IS ONLY GOING TO HURT YOU MORE AND MORE. IT IS ABOUT THE EQUIVALENCY OF TELLING YOUR PARTNER HE/SHE IS FAT OR IS UGLY. THAT is what me and my boys thought were the most compareable.
good luck: and watching porn really helps your performance!
Ummm... I'm currently age 16 and I have a 9 & 1/4 inch penis... is this normal? I think it might have to do with oversized veins... Is this dangerous?
i am 15 i am and when i measure i push down on the fat on the pubic bone and i read about 7 and a half inches, and about two inch thick( not around), and i haven't even started to grow yet, is this normal or not, cause my father told me he had like a 9 and 3/4 inch.
im 14 yrs. old and and am 6 1/2 in. big and don't know how thick but i was wondering since im not circumsized dus that effect the size of your penis?
This area sucks... I have posted 2 or 3 times, but get no responses... no real answers... everyone is so into their own desires and answer seeking, that no one cares to answer others peoples questions.... I see so many questions here, and if I could answer every one of them, I would.
For one, yes... I being a man.. truly believe that size matters to a great degree. Of course it is just one element of a relationship.
If it is not a relationship you seek, but only seek to sleep around... then be careful... women who sleep around do so for purposes of "pleasure", comparisons and to self-flagellate. Sleep with many men to feel better, because the responsibility of being in a real mature relationship is too much work for them. So it is much easier to give your body, your temple to a stranger after getting drunk, poisoning their bodies with liquor; kissing, sucking and having crazy sex with many, many men... so they can feel important and special that they have something, although not substantial... but they have something.
Second grand point - most women do not want good men. They create their cycles of violent relationships by allowing themselves to be and remain attracted to bad boys; abusive idiots; intellectual empty-heads... so women can continue on their ranting and raving that no good men exist... women need something to bitch about - to cry and complain about. So they need bad men in their lives that they "choose" to be with, to continue to help them to believe their self-created hell... women need suffering to feel important, special and alive.
MEN - yes, most are dogs. if not 99% then possibly 98%. Men are stupid. Most cannot discuss a real topic with a women if not about himself, his goals (if he even has any)his desires and thoughts of the future.
Men sleep around because most men are afraid to commit... commit to something/someone/a woman that thrives and survives by hurting, eating good men emotionally, and turning good men into bad monsters.. to continue the perpetuation of men are dogs... that’s weird, because I thought dogs were considered loyal... yet, women say men are not loyal... such a strange comparison.
Listen, learn, live.... we all men want to be bigger.. some have real reason.. others have mental reasons... as for me... I am only 6", average length and girth... but you know what?! I hate it but must deal with it... since I was around 22 or so and I am now 31... I have taken every herbal pill, used every patch and pump out there... NOTHING works! So I stopped trying, and just learn and continue to work on the fact that I have to live with what I have... use it to the best of my ability... so guys... instead of just desiring a large meat... learn about stamina, endurance, positions, kissing, rubbing, eating, licking, spanking...toy play, role play, etcetera... a REAL WOMAN enjoys variety in a man... not just one element of a man... his size!
By the way...if anyone can truly guarantee me a method to increase my penis length by 2 inches at least and 2 inches in girth at least... then you should rule the world!...size, plus endurance, stamina, knowledge of positions; confidence; desire; true sensuality... all those elements would make any WOMEN want you... aside from being able to sit down and converse intelligently; philosophize; verbalize your goals; take steps daily to accomplishing real everyday goals; make a difference on this planet...
... such a mind of confusion... love, hate, self-loathing... what if, just what if someone were to be so insecure of thei size, that they felt so ashamed to continue to go on living? They think that to continue to live would place them into possible scenarios that they would be alone with a woman, and be humiliated when they are faced with the womens potential laughter when she sees him naked.. not being "man enough" to please her? Who would take this posting serious if someone wrote that and meant it? Would anyone do something or not care? Is it alegit reason to be so insecure, that eats at your very core to even consider to go on? Not me, umm...a friend of mine feels like this.
To anonymous directly above this comment:
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There is so much snake oil being sold nowadays. It seems like nothing has changed.
I am "assuming" that the mayo clinic knows what they are talking about.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/penis/MC00026
I'm 6' tall with a 5 3/4" penis. I am attractive and work out reguarly. I currently date a very attractive woman. In her past she was a stripper, she weighs slightly over 100 lbs. with large fake breast. I figured she never cared about my size because she was so small, but we recently had a threesome with her friend who is not fat by any means just larger. Her friend is 5' 10 140 and also an attractive ex-stripper. I'm not rich by any means so it isn't a money thing. When I sit back an try to figure out how I got so lucky my girlfriend explains to me that my excellent sexually skills are not from my size. Yet because I can last a long time, and make the experience fun and exciting. I preform little or no oral sex, and it has never been an issue of size but the situation. Basically guys some girls/women will want you to have a large penis and you can't do anything about it. There are plenty of attractive woman out there that are turned on by the things you can control, such as: confidence, health, grooming and creativity. I might be 5 3/4" in the pants but I preform and act with the confidence of a 12" porn star that's the key. Be honest and fun that's what makes sex satisfiying, and woman that want a large penis can masterbate to Ron Jeremy.
Although I have a slightly above average penis, I still desired more. Pumps somewhat work.They can be time consuming but fun if used with A parter.You must take your time and be careful. You can pull blood to the surface(like hickey) and/or rupture a blood vessel.
Cock rings help trap blood in the penis. helping to maintain the swell. I dont know about pills I have never tried them. But, I can say now with great assurance I dont want them. I have a beautiful wife and
I make love to her every night! Sex is not about your size. Its about learning your partners needs and desires.If you take the time to learn her needs she will take the time to learn yours. So, why worry
about something you really cant change. Just communicate with your partner and enjoy sexually pleasing each other!!!!!!!!!!
I'm about 6" long, and about 1 1/2" in width. I would like to know if there is a way to add a good inch or two. I'm jealous of those guys in porn videos that seem to rule the world with their 9" penises, and the women having sex with them seem to like it.
Ok, a little information from someone who worked in the porn industry for 10 years. Size does NOT matter past about 3 inches. Any woman who says it does is simply stating a personal opinion because they have not learned enough about themselves to help their partner to help them reach orgasm. If your less then 3 inches or have very little girth you may have to look at other ways to please your partner. Toys, oral, masturbation, etc. but you can pleasure her just as well as any other man! Pumps are good for getting an erection and adding a SLIGHT length/girth growth temporarily but it is usually not permanent. I say usually because I have heard some men say that over time they though they noticed a VERY SMALL permanent gain, but there is no scientific proof that pumps cause permanent growth. Many men use the following technique for sexual encounters: place a cock ring (a stretchy one, never use velcro, metal, or plastic) around the base of the pump(the plastic tube), pump up the penis (not too much, you can cause permanent damage by going too far!) and then roll the cock ring down around the base of your penis. This will keep the blood which has been forced into the penis from escaping quickly and allow you to enjoy that extra size temporarily. Also, yes losing weight can have an impact on penis size if you are overweight or have fat stored around your penis (like a "mound" around it). The rule of thumb on this is about 1 inch gain per 10 - 20 pounds lost. It's not much, sorry skinny guys you won't benefit from this, but it's something! Also, keep in mind that VERY FEW women orgasm from penetration. Most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Try experimenting with different positions. Try finding a position where your pubic area can rub against her clitoris or she can comfortably touch herself a little to help the orgasm along. Also, they make cock rings that are designed to hit a woman's clitoris with each stroke. Try checking in your local adult video store or online to find one you and your partner may enjoy using. They even have some that have a tiny vibrator that comes with it and once it is placed on the base of the penis the vibrator comes in contact with the clitoris with each stroke. I have sold tons of these in my time in the industry and even use one myself with my wife from time to time! Lastly, Stamina is much more important then size for a reason. Most men think that a big penis = automatic orgasm for their partner. This is NOT true! No matter what size you are, it's your understanding of what your partner needs, wants, and desires that brings them to orgasm! Sorry for the long post, but I hope this helps any guys out there that are not feeling like they are good enough. Your fine just the way you are. All men have the same ability to pleasure a woman. How you go about it is up to you and your partner!
Ok I have always been very small i don't know why but my question is.
Is there awy for me to get a longer penis i've lived with this shame for way to long and i want to have a longer penis.
Could someone help me please?
I am over weight and also have a very small penis when it is limp it looks like a penis of a new born.
I hate my self and the way my penis is even hard it still looks like a childs penis.
there has tobe a way to get my penis to it's full lenght so i will not be ashamed.
good grief. there is nothing you can do to increase you penis size. That little organ is not the most important "thing" in your life. When you die are you going to be thinking about your penis size? get a life
if ur curious try the products and stop being sissy's im just a normal six and im 5'10 but if you watch porn those guys are huge... HUGE! i dont know about everyone else but im going to give it a try before i start asking questions
I am 20 yoa with a normal size erect penis, about 5 3/4 inches. i am very satisfied with this, so is my girlfriend. i would just like a larger flaccide penis, is there a way i can do this
i need to tell u guys, im about 5.5 inches when erect, and sometimes, i get larger, but it depends on how turned on u are, u know! im 18 yrs old! ive had sex, and the girl i was with wanted more! its definitely how u use it! and also, there is no real way to increase ur size, trust me! the only way to do it is to increase ur stamina, and how u do that is u have to strengthen ur PVC (i think) muscle which is between ur anus and ur penis, u have to pretend ur trying to stop he flow of ur piss! keep doin that for a while and u wll have larger ejaculations and u will be able to control ur ejaculation! ALSO......the womans pleasure areas are 2-3 inches within the vagina, so if u have a 12 inch penis, she wont feel anything, i think having a 5-6 inch penis is the best, she can feel pleasure, and its easier to suck! haha!
hey im 13 and hav exactly 6 inches long and about 1 1/2 width penis erected. I would like to make it abit larger,would masterbting help?
hey i am 28/ 6'2/athletic build and i was fairly happy at 6.5 inches but always wanted a bit more i guess. out of curiosity i got a penis pump. i now use it for 20 mins 3 times a week, and am getting gradual size gains. it works if u do it gently and keep going. after 2 months regular pumping my erection measures 7.6 inches and a lot thicker and i plan to continue. i have no problem getting an erection, and my sensitivity has increased. my wife of 3 years is in full support of me pumping and finds it a turn on!
Well let me say something here cause theres so much confusion goin around.
I'm pushing 9 inches and a good amount of girth and to be honest, it does give me great confidence and i've whipped it out to prove it countless times and its great to know i beat out most guys in the room when it comes down to that. however, i had a girlfriend for a year and the sex for a long time (the beginning that is) was just lousy! i could barely fit in her and she would cry and cry telling me its ok keep going lets get through this, but after a bit i'd get soft and would just have to stop. i was angry for a long time about this and experience minor erectile dysfunction which also caused me to have a problem keeping it up with her due to her always in so much pain.
Granted she was a vrigin and also a petite girl, still i didnt know what to do. It took a while for us to adjust and really have good sex. Same goes with any other skinny girls but after a while the sex got better so i wasnt totally doomed. I'd also like to say that getting head with a thick 9 inch penis sucks unless the girl has a lot of experience. Lets face it, the deeper they go the better it is, and sucking the tip and about half just doesnt cut it for me.
But for all u average guys out there, dont feel so bad, be confident, learn how to use it, and learn how to perform foreplay well and she wont even look at it like that. Theres ups to having a big penis, but dont forget the downs cause they suck! PS- im only 19 and i still get those boners, getting them with this size SUCKS cause i cant hide it for nothing.
I hope i helped to some extent.
With all due respect gentlemen, I'm 8 inches long and above average in thickness (but not porn star size obviously) I've been with 20 women and the vast majority have said the same thing , usually in the form of "I'm so glad your big ! " or something similar and I realize I'm not that big.
I have studied sexual psychology (considering opening a counsuling practice) and talk to a lot of women outside of the ones I've been with and about 75% say the same thing, they really do like guys to be on the large size BUT it is possible to be to big for some women usually over 9 - 9 1/2, though I have been with a couple of women who said they wish I was even bigger (did not feel great but I appreciated the honesty and they appreciated being able to be honest). I've also heard from many women that it always seems to be the average or smaller guys (or their girlfriends)saying size doesn't matter. Who knows, every woman is different, but even I am interested in increasing my penis size. I just would rather have to much for the "job" than not enough!
I have tried a combination of Enzyte and Saw Palmetto together and found NO increase in size per say BUT my erections were rock hard (which increased size minimaly) and it was easier to last longer. Good luck to all of us mabey something will work !
maturbation will not increase size.. if it did i would be at least a foot long.. prob way longer
can masturbation decrease the size of your penis, stop it from growing, or any stuff like that?
I want to know do penis strechers work?
if you're 13 of course you'll have a smaller penis than older guys ... mine wasn't fully grown until i was 17 (i'm now 21). mine is 7 inches on the ruler, which is above average, and i agree that bigger is better and would like another inch or even more. vacuum pumping looks interesting... anyone do it? results??
well i just turned 15 and my penis is 9 1/2 inches and 6 inches around i just wanna know when does it stop growin
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Thank you.
I have noticed a 2cm gain from recreational use of a pump. Icing on the cake since I just use it to masturbate.
mayoclinic is also a commercial site.
Huge viagra banner etc
i am a 5'10", 350 pound male and i have an 8 inch penis. Ive always heard that big guys have small members but its not true.
i am about to turn 15, but i am only about 4 3/4" to 5" in length and 3" in diameter should i be expecting more as i age since i am also only 5'2" but my parents are both 6' tall or will i be stuck with it
i need some help i just lost my g/f im pretty sure it was because she couldnt ride my penis due to it being too short (4.5 inches.) what can i do to win her back? i haven't read anything similar to my problems. am i all alone on this one? having one testicle also does not help out my situation any.
I'm 16 years old and exactly 6 inches when erect, and to tell you the truth, i'm fine with it. Sure I wouldn't mind an extra inch or so, but my girlfriend now for 11 months sais it's all she'd want; it's her size, and to top it off I can use it like a trooper. To boost or test my confidence, I sometimes ask her during sex, "Do you think I'm small?". She's an honest person, and she sais I'm not. My first partner in which I had sex with said it was a perfect size, and that was 2-3 years ago... when I was only 5 inches.
I find myself sometimes enlarging half an inch, and the reason to why, I think, is the amount you're turned on - and also by your stamina: the faster you go the more blood pumps through you, thus enlarging your size. If you want to learn how to increase speed I honestly couldn't tell you, but having proper and stronger muscles around your pelvic area helps to control the urge to go. I may only be 16.. but I have lots of experience. Don't worry about size, really, if you are, take these tips in and you'll be fine:
If you're uncomftorable with your size and don't think you could icnrease your stamina, let her go on top. I find by flexing your chest and abdominals at the same time takes much of the urge away. And it's a bonus because she picks her speed, she can't blame you!
Another: Usually with whoever I'm with, it starts by foreplay. If you turn her on enough that urge will get to the striking point, then from there switch over to the sex. Trust me, it works. I'll turn my girlfriend on so much by foreplay, that all I have to do is put myself inside of her, not even move a muscle (but I clench my cheeks sometimes ;)), and she'll move her body from side to side a couple times, and BOOM for her.
I don't whip myself out at anybody, and I think it's actually pretty distrubing when I turn around at school and a friend is giving me "the brain". Nobody the size this shouldn't really be a negative for you. If you're a skinny dipper and you're out with a girl, well then secretly thing deep thoughts or touch your jeans once or twice so that when you're exposed, you appear bigger. The only thing i'm nervous about is how girls might find me since I'm not "cut" below, but i've never been rejected by it, and I really don't think they care.
One more thing: when they're in your bed they're in your bed, even if they're selfish and wrong and get to thinking that you can't please them because you're only 4, 5, 6 inches, they're not going to turn you down; you already have them.
what is the average penis size flacid
im 16 yo and 4 1/2 in. is this normal?
Size DOES matter. Black guys are NOT bigger than white guys. (Only bigger when soft, but not hard). Not to come off as rude, but that is what guys with little penises (and their girlfriends/boyfriends) say to make themselves feel better. There are certain nerves and spots in the vagina/anus that have just got to be touched to feel good. Personally, I am 8.5"-9", and have been told from everyone I have slept with, SIZE DOES MATTER. I personally would like another inch, but hey, JUST ASK YOUR DOCTOR.
i am 17 my penis is about average but when i get hard it curves downward which makes is look smaller then it really is.Is there anything i can do to prevent this or take sum kind of drug that would make my penis straight is there anything i could do. Also does the penis continue to grow after 18 or til the age 18 even if you have went through perberty does a male continue to grow in hight til hes 21? and finally is there anything that you could do to get a longer penis or a wider penis with or with out using sum drug or medical device?
does masterbaten stop the growth or in anyway effect the growth of the penis.(taking in account that i have been masterbatien since the fifth grade)And if pills don't work or pumps or anything how do you the porn stars have such big penis i mean they have to be taking something or doing something i mean come on have you seen mandigo he's huge what is it that they do?
here's the real deal.....your penis is made up of veins, arteries, cappalaries, nerves, etc.
ITS A MUSCLE. Just like other muscles in the body, it can be strengthened to fulfill its demands more adequately. having an active sex life will help your penis as well as exercising. think about it, if you stretch before and after you jog for a mile, you are less likely to get cramps....enabling you to (and even wanting to) jog more later.
the same applies to your penis....as for size growth, there are techniques that people have tried and supposedly many have reported that damaging ones self is an easy mistake. however if your penis doesnt grow due to exercise it will be stronger, more lively, stamina increases, orgasms are better.. yadda yadda yadda
i'm 19 am i too young to start using a penis pump?
im 15 years old and have a 6"penis am i normal.
6" is the average length so you are normal.
there are penis pumps that work. just look on the net instead of the toys in your local sex shop. best sensation ever to be pumped up, and over time there are permanent increases.
5'9 154 (do weight training) 7.5"
Well I see that a lot of people are misinformed, largely the blame goes to the media, which is pure marketing.
Im a Doctor, so I can assure you what Im bout to say is scientific.
THERE IS NO PRODUCT OUT THERE THAT CAN ACTUALLY ENLARGE YOU PENIS SIZE !! EXCEPT SURGERY
(btw surgery is only done for penis under 3-3.5 Inches)
Average size of the penis differs from each race, to better match the vaginal depth
Pumps help you get an erection, but at untrained or inexperienced hands can cause more damage than good, esp if the suction used it too high, enough to cause permenant damage.
Pills usually work by selective vasodilation of penis (expanding the blood vessels supplying the penis) again doesnt increase size. Helps erection, if you have erectile dysfunction.
Now Anatomicaly speaking, each race has a variance in the average penis size, and vaginal depth. Which will adequately match the partners.
On an average most of the women have a vaginal depth of 4 inch, ofcourse it can accomadate larger penis by expansion.
Another important point is the G-spot or where women have the max sensation is 1-2 inch inside on the vaginal wall, and the clitoris.
So it doesnt really make a differnce having a larger penis.
If you are smaller in size, there are lot of sexual positions that can give a deeper penetration.
SO anything over 4 inch can satisfy any average women.
Well excersice can help people who are overweight, the shaft of the penis doesnt grow with losing weight, but helps a lot by reducing the fat around the pubic area and thigh, which would logicaly let you get closer to the partner, also boosts your stamina and confidence, gives you stronger erections.
Stop wasting time trying to make the penis bigger, spend time trying to find out more ways to find out what satisfies your partner.
Most of the time women dont climax just with intercourse, so lot of foreplay, and clitoral stimulation can go a long way.
Hope I've answered a few questions.
i agree with u ... doc
i am 15 my penis is about 5 1/2 inches and seems it getting biger at what age will i reach my maximum size?
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Well first thing first if you know what you are doing then size won't really matter, one of the biggest problem that alot of men are having is that they are moving way to quick to get the sex instead of taking there time first, what I always do is give her alot of foreplay & pleasure, lite touch, going down on her very slowly never moving to fast always teasing her to a point that she can't hold it or take it anymore, thats is when I start to pick up the pace and when i pick up the pace is when I'll stay on it till she can't cum any more, by that time when you give her the penis it won't matter what your size is because she will be to drained to even notice... Just remember NO WAM BAM THANK YOU MAME.
6" is enough. I've had a few complaints from my partners in the past saying that my penis is too big and hurts. Maybe its more of a male ego thing really, but I dont really want to go smaller, and a part of me sometimes wishes it was maybe 1" bigger. I wont go into exact sizes here for bragging rights, but I think that if you are 5" to 7" then STAY THAT WAY.
I feel very sad reading some of these posts. You can't help the body God gave you. Our culture makes you feel it is wrong. Your body is amazing, no matter what. I am a woman, some women say size matters, but many say it doesn't. My husband has a smaller, penis, but he still pleases me sexually, very much. Most women don't have orgasms during sex. You need to tend to her before or after the sex act. Embrace what you have, and learn how to please a woman. If you can do that, as well as please yourself, nothing else matters.
*To the person worried about body fat around his penis. Loosing weight all over may lessen fat in this area, but that's not always so easy. Try to love yourself as you are, and learn how to give a woman great orgasms, all kinds of ways, and what more could matter? Don't be so hard on yourselves!!! You have a lot to offer. Many women have very small breast, it's all OK!!!
how can your penis grow from a 4and a hlf to a six. i.m 25 has it stopped growin
The TRUE average penis size is 3, yes 3 TO 5 INCHES, unerect. 90% of men have penises in this size range. You guys who say otherwise are dreaming. Don't listen to those fools out there who claim to have these huge penises. The 5 3/4 to 6 1/2 must be when it's erect, but it doesn't match my data search. Quit the penis fixation!
All you guys out there, i am an average 6" and wanted more (for some reason) so i spent around $250 on the pills, big mistake, took them for months and months...i did notice a slight increase in girth but overall length didnt change...so save your $$.....and besides insnt a womens internal g-spot only 1 to 2 inches inside of her....you dont need a log in your pants to hit that.
erect i am only about 4 3/4 and have always been insecure, so i focused on orally pleasuring my partners, until i got with my fiance who claims that my penis is more than big enough, and that i pleasure better with it than with my tongue, most times i cant even finish because she gets tired, so i guess size doesnt matter as long as you have stamina and speed which makes sense, seeing at how the clittoris is jsut inside the vagina and not deep in, the bes