This Is Not A Diet
Whenever I read the postings on my weight management board, inevitably there's one from someone who has had an awakening and is desperately seeking help to reverse obesity. Here's one I received recently from offby40:
First, I congratulate her for taking herself on to begin the journey to achieve health and wellness. Second, I want to set the record straight for everyone. Throughout this posting, the theme seemed to be "diet"- starting one, failed diets. This is not a diet! Instead, I suggest you say "I'm going to clean up my lifestyle, get healthy and become more mentally and physically fit." This is about healthy living, and developing better lifestyle habits. When you do, you'll find it so much easier to shed excess body fat, feel energized and increase your sense of self esteem. You want to be fit to live your life to the fullest. That's why I called my most recent book Fit to Live.
I'll bet many of you are in the same place as the person who posted this on the board. OK, here's how you start out. First, remember that WebMD has so many wonderful resources throughout our lifestyle channel to help with calorie counting, fitness tips and recipe suggestions. Next, if you're going to change lifestyle habits, that means everything from mental and nutritional behaviors, to financial (is health a priority in your spending), physical activity and environmental (clutter, lack of organization, getting outdoors) components. No need to feel overwhelmed. In my book, I address the key pillars of lifestyle: Mind, Mouth, Muscle, Money and Macrocosm (the environment).
Always start with low hanging fruit- the simplest, smallest steps you can take to get the ball rolling. Before beginning any program, please consult your physician and medical team. Know what your baseline health status is and if there are any restrictions on your program. Here are tips and tools to get started:
MIND: Get a clear vision of why you want to change your lifestyle. It has to be powerful enough to get you through challenging times when you're tempted to revert to old habits. Being fit enough to play with your kids or grandkids? Healthy and attractive enough to get out there and find a partner in life or new friends? Becoming a runner, biker, hiker and hanging out with like-minded folks? Want to prevent or reverse medical conditions that plague you? Anything goes here. Sit down and really think this out. Come up with a mantra to remind you why you need to stay on track- "Sick and tired versus Fit and Fab." Say to yourself "I choose fit and fab." This is a conscious, mindful, deliberate choice. Finally, create realistic expectations. Progress, not perfection, will get you there.
MOUTH: Quality, quantity and frequency are key. Whole foods, lean proteins, and whole grains become the staple of your nutrition. Read the USDA labels on all foods to know what a true serving size is. When in doubt at restaurants, eat ½ of what's in front of you. Eat smaller meals and snacks every 3-4 hours beginning with breakfast and ending with dinner. Remember to include protein and fiber throughout the day, as that combo will curb carb cravings as well as increase your sense of fullness. Try to finish dinner no later than 8:00 - 8:30 PM and leave 2 hours without eating before you sleep.
MUSCLE: Get up and move more throughout the day. Buy a pedometer and crank out 10,000 steps (roughly 4 miles) per day walking. Work up to this goal. Be creative about finding ways to move more. At 300 pounds, you need to protect your knees so avoid any jumping, running, squats or lunges.
MONEY: Invest in a great pair of sneakers with plenty of cushion. Get socks that do the same. If you're a gym type, scope out a good deal on a membership where you can cross train on different cardio equipment (ellipticals are knee friendly and burn calories efficiently) and where you can learn to begin safe and guided weight training, stretching and core work.
MACROCOSM: Look around at your living and working spaces. Does it look like a bomb went off? How can you develop a new healthier lifestyle when you're buried under miles of piles? You need to clean up your environment and get organized. You can't take a walk if you can't find your sneakers and you can't pay for that jazzersize class if you can't locate your checkbook. Be patient, and schedule an hour here and there over time to get this done. Also, get outdoors more. Walking, biking, and hiking in nature are such wonderful, healing experiences. Do it alone, with a friend or in a group. Just do it.
Whip out a journal and keep track of your daily progress. You don't have to write the great American novel. Just monitor what counts- your baseline lifestyle elements, challenges and triumphs. You'll need your starting status: medical issues (what you want to change like blood pressure, blood sugar, any medical conditions); make a note of overall weight, body fat percentage, BMI and waist size (across the belly button); and, clothing size including jeans, pants, dress, belt.
Finally, don't forget to create a support system. This could be your mother, best friend, a mentor, or your dog. It includes keeping up with us on the WebMD weight management board for online support, as well as any helpful books or DVD's that resonate with you. You're assembling your "A" team to help you through thick and thin (ahem!).
OK, there's your foundation. Now hop to it and don't call this a diet!
"I HAVE JUST SIGNED UP FOR THIS IN HOPES OF FINDING SUPPORT IN STARTING A NEW DIET. I HAVE TRIED MANY DIETS BUT I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH COMPLETING THE DIETS. NOW I AM GOING TO FOCUS ON CALORIE INTAKE AND EXERCISE. I AM 300 LBS AND ABOUT 5FT9 AND MY BMI IS REGISTERING AT SEVERELY OBESE. IS THERE ANYONE THAT CAN GIVE ME SOME POINTERS ON HOW TO GET STARTED, AND HOW TO KEEP IT GOING. I REALLY NEED HELP."
First, I congratulate her for taking herself on to begin the journey to achieve health and wellness. Second, I want to set the record straight for everyone. Throughout this posting, the theme seemed to be "diet"- starting one, failed diets. This is not a diet! Instead, I suggest you say "I'm going to clean up my lifestyle, get healthy and become more mentally and physically fit." This is about healthy living, and developing better lifestyle habits. When you do, you'll find it so much easier to shed excess body fat, feel energized and increase your sense of self esteem. You want to be fit to live your life to the fullest. That's why I called my most recent book Fit to Live.
I'll bet many of you are in the same place as the person who posted this on the board. OK, here's how you start out. First, remember that WebMD has so many wonderful resources throughout our lifestyle channel to help with calorie counting, fitness tips and recipe suggestions. Next, if you're going to change lifestyle habits, that means everything from mental and nutritional behaviors, to financial (is health a priority in your spending), physical activity and environmental (clutter, lack of organization, getting outdoors) components. No need to feel overwhelmed. In my book, I address the key pillars of lifestyle: Mind, Mouth, Muscle, Money and Macrocosm (the environment).
Always start with low hanging fruit- the simplest, smallest steps you can take to get the ball rolling. Before beginning any program, please consult your physician and medical team. Know what your baseline health status is and if there are any restrictions on your program. Here are tips and tools to get started:
MIND: Get a clear vision of why you want to change your lifestyle. It has to be powerful enough to get you through challenging times when you're tempted to revert to old habits. Being fit enough to play with your kids or grandkids? Healthy and attractive enough to get out there and find a partner in life or new friends? Becoming a runner, biker, hiker and hanging out with like-minded folks? Want to prevent or reverse medical conditions that plague you? Anything goes here. Sit down and really think this out. Come up with a mantra to remind you why you need to stay on track- "Sick and tired versus Fit and Fab." Say to yourself "I choose fit and fab." This is a conscious, mindful, deliberate choice. Finally, create realistic expectations. Progress, not perfection, will get you there.
MOUTH: Quality, quantity and frequency are key. Whole foods, lean proteins, and whole grains become the staple of your nutrition. Read the USDA labels on all foods to know what a true serving size is. When in doubt at restaurants, eat ½ of what's in front of you. Eat smaller meals and snacks every 3-4 hours beginning with breakfast and ending with dinner. Remember to include protein and fiber throughout the day, as that combo will curb carb cravings as well as increase your sense of fullness. Try to finish dinner no later than 8:00 - 8:30 PM and leave 2 hours without eating before you sleep.
MUSCLE: Get up and move more throughout the day. Buy a pedometer and crank out 10,000 steps (roughly 4 miles) per day walking. Work up to this goal. Be creative about finding ways to move more. At 300 pounds, you need to protect your knees so avoid any jumping, running, squats or lunges.
MONEY: Invest in a great pair of sneakers with plenty of cushion. Get socks that do the same. If you're a gym type, scope out a good deal on a membership where you can cross train on different cardio equipment (ellipticals are knee friendly and burn calories efficiently) and where you can learn to begin safe and guided weight training, stretching and core work.
MACROCOSM: Look around at your living and working spaces. Does it look like a bomb went off? How can you develop a new healthier lifestyle when you're buried under miles of piles? You need to clean up your environment and get organized. You can't take a walk if you can't find your sneakers and you can't pay for that jazzersize class if you can't locate your checkbook. Be patient, and schedule an hour here and there over time to get this done. Also, get outdoors more. Walking, biking, and hiking in nature are such wonderful, healing experiences. Do it alone, with a friend or in a group. Just do it.
Whip out a journal and keep track of your daily progress. You don't have to write the great American novel. Just monitor what counts- your baseline lifestyle elements, challenges and triumphs. You'll need your starting status: medical issues (what you want to change like blood pressure, blood sugar, any medical conditions); make a note of overall weight, body fat percentage, BMI and waist size (across the belly button); and, clothing size including jeans, pants, dress, belt.
Finally, don't forget to create a support system. This could be your mother, best friend, a mentor, or your dog. It includes keeping up with us on the WebMD weight management board for online support, as well as any helpful books or DVD's that resonate with you. You're assembling your "A" team to help you through thick and thin (ahem!).
OK, there's your foundation. Now hop to it and don't call this a diet!
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